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BM mom's list of demands and her entitlement issues....... I just can't process her way of thinking!!!!!!!!!

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So last night SO got a text from BM asking him to find SD17 a job up here for the summer. That she will need to work. Which we agree with. 100%. BUT last SO knew SD17 was refusing to work on things with me and staying in MY home so therefore she wasn't coming to stay with us. So my SO nicely texted BM back and said I have spoke to SD17 regarding the summer she isn't willing to sit down and work on things to stay here at our house. She will NOT come here and behave the way she has been for the last year and a half. We have 4 other kids in the house and Carrie.

So here is the latest on the ongoing drama, bullshit and lies........

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So last week SD17 called SO about how BM's boyfriend came home and sat everybody down and told them he had a new girlfriend and they all needed to move out.... then of course the mother of BM called my SO mom.. and the ball was rolling with flapping of the jaws. SO phone ringing from SD17 and dramatics and of course his mom with the "gossip" she was just informed of.

OMG..... YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!

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So.... SO comes to my work today. His EX was just dumped by the man she left him for. Her mom called his mom then his mom called him because they are all so concerned for BM. ARE YOU KIDDING ME? THEN SD17 calls SO (for the first time in months) to bad mouth BM's BF. Shit I want to HIGH FIVE THE GUY! So SO is telling me how SD17 is saying all these horrible things about BF.. bla bla bla. I say to him um seriously are you going to believe a 17 year old? Look at all the shit she says about me? This guy has put up with her bullshit for 4 years.

WIFE????

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I find it angering and infuriating that my SO refers to me as his wife...... when we are talking about important decisions in our lives. Here are the reasons I am ANNOYED and PIST OFF

broken record here... but I just have no place else to vent.

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Last night I discovered that everyone got to see SS13. But me. BM, SO and the SO of BM. All together. One big happy ass family. Not only that but they all went to SD17 game together while SO was down there for SS13. One more this is where you rate kick. And then last night I was driving by the second hand store where I sold my wedding dress, shoes and damn flower for my hair and guess what was on the mannequin right in the front window? Yep my dress, shoes and flower. What a wonderful reminder that I was asked to marry somebody but was put on the back burner because of a selfish brat.

Update on my SS13

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First thank you so much for all the prayers. He does not have to have surgery. I am so thankful. So very thankful. He is still in the hospital but no surgery. He will get to go home hopefully this weekend. I'm just so thankful.
I also discovered that I was right about why I wasn't allowed there. SD17 was with SO the entire time. Which of course means I'm not allowed around. He came home yesterday because he has no paid time off. BM is staying with SS13 the next few days while he is in the hospital.

another big slap in the face

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SD13 (the one I'm close to) was just admitted to the ER with a very serious injury. Life threatening. My SO of course took off to the hospital six hours away and where am I? Yep that's right as usual left at home. That boy and i bonded last summer. The only skid that stayed with me when SO was still taking them to his mothers. I love him like he is my own but yet I have to stay home because It's a family matter. I often wonder why I stay. I will get no sleep tonite with worry for my Ss. I ask for some prayers for him. Thanks my friends. My only outlet to show my hurt.

just shoot me already.....

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My SO's mom befriended the EX WIFE on Facebook. WTF? I'm going to SCREAM. First I got her uncle and sister posting on his page about how they wish she'd pull her head out of her ass and see how great he is.. and now his mom is friends with her? I'm deleting her from my page. So over this BULLSHIT
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Ugh.... after all we have gone through he is going to back out

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SO has his appointment at 3:30 for the attorney regarding both baby mama's and each of them coming up with excuse after excuse for why they can't get the skids to us when they are suppose to. One of them will just not answer her phone and the other complains of not having gas money to do half the driving. Should have thought of that before you took off 6 hours away to find a "new life" which is already falling apart and now she is moving someplace else to find a "new life"

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