Is this inappropriate? ³
I came home from work today to find DH & SD10 wrestling on MY bed. I personally find this to be inappropriate at her age. I mentioned it making me uncomfortable to DH and he immediately went on the defensive. SD also likes to cuddle up to DH on the couch with her legs entwined with his and frequently has him rubbing her feet. (Mind u when I ask for a foot rub the answer is usually no.) SD is always messing with DH, rubbing his head, even picking at his ears or trying to pop a pimple, or rubbing his shoulders and scratching his back. It makes me feel so icky to watch! Particularly because these are things i as his WIFE does to/with him! I've also noticed SD trying to walk between my husband and I in public and rushing to grab his hand to hold before I do. She also acts very needy when at our home constantly needing Daddys "help" such as starting her shower and brushing her hair when at her moms house and grandmas house she independently functions and doesn't act like a 5 yr old. I know my husband would NEVER violate or abuse his daughter i just think he doesnt realize there comes a point with a little girl & her daddy that boundaries need to be in place. Am I overreacting thinking this behaviour should come to a halt?