To ask or not to ask?
My MIL passed away tragically 4 days after her hernia surgery. It's a long story. My FIL is devestated. He doesn't want to plan the funeral so I am taking care of most of it.
The pastor is making the programs for the service, and asked how many grandchildren they are. Do I include my son in there?? He and my mil accepted us into the family. We've been around 6 years. He recently assured my son he is his grandson because my son feels left out Cuz he has a different last name. I know that if he isn't in the program that my SD's and him will point it out and he will be hurt.
Do I ask or is that inappropriate?