Ok..before I start on my vent let me apologise up front as I am typing this on my cell. About a week ago I posted about issues with SD7 making disrespectful comments that I believe is coming from her BM. I got some good advice, however, BM is a force all her own. BM is the epitome of scary divorce psycho ex stories. A couple times a week I run into someone that has a psycho BM story..everything from DV on my husband...(yes her!!) when they were married, to stories of her being kicked out of the kids games for yelling and screaming, to getting caught giving blowjobs in the little legue parking lot. And ooohhh there are so many more...this woman is nuts!! Whenever, we try to discuss an issue with her, she blows up and will find a way to get us back one way or another. Lately, as I metioned above, she has been encouraging SD7to make comments, things such as asking me if I am embaressed by the way I look, and "mom told me to say I don't like"....fill in the blank. Tonight she sent a text to my hubby ( my god she is ALWAYS texting) saying that she wanted to give him some helpful advice, and that he should not look at naked pics of him and me in the movie theater as he never knows who is behind him, especially with the kids with him....WTF!!! As if something LIKE THAT would happen. :jawdrop: like the police wouldn't be called if someone was looking at homemade porn in the middle of a theater! WTF!! Hubby does not have such items on his phone, the kids play games on it all of the time. Ggrrrrrrrrrrr ok I'll stop there before my rant really starts. :sick: so any advice on how to handle this? I am soo mad that she is involving the kids in this behavoir and I feel bad for hubby!