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And I bid you fine ladies adieu

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After over 7 years of trying SO, exSO, and I have decided to call it quits. I spent more time lurking and responding than posting since I my former SKs were not that bad, it was their parents that have always been the problem. Either way since I am no longer a SP, I do not feel as if I could give any insightful advice. I thank all you ladies for your advice, whether direct or me learning from example, thought out my time here and I wish you all the best.

Rant- Must everything be about SS...

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I am really getting sick of a child that I don't even see that often. Why you ask? Because his father won't shut up about him. Every now and again BS will ask if SS can come over. I give my usual: ask your father. Which always turns into ask you mom, it's not my house. I can't control SS schedule, I'm not calling heffa (BM) to ask her. Iif SO wanted his kid here then he should get off his a$$ make a decision as say the kid tis coming over on x date. My only response would be what about (insert any predetermined plans). This as been the arrangement for 6 years now.

Oh REALLY - OT

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So my 3yo BS has been trying to workout the differences between boys and girls. I often get a girls can't do that, or like blue or any manner of things he thinks falls within normal boy behavior. While SO is normally just excited that his boy is learning his masculinity, I tend to correct said behavior. More on the lines of girls can do any and everything boys can do except for pee standing up.

He's putting words in my mouth...and then blaming me for saying them?-Rant

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Things haven't been so rosy in tonieyeville as of late. SO still very a$$chapped about me buying a house and not putting his name one it. Sorry, not sorry. Now he's holding against me things I've never actually said but based solely on how he thinks I would feel about said subject. And, quick frankly it's pathetic and rather annoying. Somehow not allowing him to replace BS bed with a bunk bed or put bunk beds in one of the bedrooms means his kids can never come over. Granted I can't see why his special snowflakes can't sleep in normal beds.

OT - to answer a question I missed from yesterday's cryopreservation blog

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No I meant human cells. You can in fact freeze many types of human cells, like immune cells, and they retain their activity.

I freeze healthy and diseased human cells often and the defrost them for later work.

It is tissue that cannot be frozen and thawed in a functional way. A very important distinction. If you freeze a muscle there is no known way to defrost it and still have functional muscle, for example.

SO attempting to keep things even at my expense

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Sorry for the out of the blue post. I am a long time lurker that does not post often but this situation is throwing me for a loop. On my last post way, way, way back when I blogged about buying a house on my own but putting my SO on the deed. Long story short, after much turmoil I bought the house and his name is not on the deed. This has, unsurprisingly set off a crap storm about if it was him my name would be on the deed (it wouldn't) and how he could live for free with his friend (he doesn't) and how he needs to look out for his other kids too (not my problem).

Real estate and protecting myself

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Hi. I want to start off by introducing myself. I'm a long time lurker but this is my first blog post and I would really like some advice. My fiancé and I have been together for 5 years and engaged for 4. Needless to say we've had a very rocky relationship that in the last 2 years has gotten much better. He has 3 children with 2 different women and 1 child with me. I have no other children. Here comes the problem. For the last 8 years I've been positioning myself to buy a house. I've saved up money for that time and for the last year I've been working on cleaning up my credit.