I am really getting sick of a child that I don't even see that often. Why you ask? Because his father won't shut up about him. Every now and again BS will ask if SS can come over. I give my usual: ask your father. Which always turns into ask you mom, it's not my house. I can't control SS schedule, I'm not calling heffa (BM) to ask her. Iif SO wanted his kid here then he should get off his a$$ make a decision as say the kid tis coming over on x date. My only response would be what about (insert any predetermined plans). This as been the arrangement for 6 years now. I really wish he'd stop deflecting his craptastic parenting decision, or lack thereof on me. The ironic part is that anytime I mention his nephews, that spent 10+ hours a day with BS for 3 years, SOgets pissy with the I wish you'd support SS and BS relationship like that. You never say that BS want to go over SS house. Like why would I send my child to your heffa of an ex house?

BS been having a hard time in preschool. A kindergartener is bossing him around and he really miss his cousins, they're close in age and really his support system. He just really needs to see his boys for a little bit. We drive by their apartment everyday on the way to preschool but SO's sister and my schedules conflict too much for the boys to hang out. He doesn't ask for them per we but he does get quite or shed a tear when we roll past. Wednesday he saw his aunts car in my driveway and then broke down when he realized she and his cousins weren't in it. Since SO doesn't work Friday's I asked him to take BS over to his sisters to see his cousins. His response: what about SS? What about SS? Not everything is about SS!!! ARG!!!