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CELEBRATE GOOD TIMES !!! Come on !! Let's Celebrate !!

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To quote Mr Kool and his Gang.....

" There's a party goin' on right here,
A Celebration to last throughout the years "

It has HAPPENED !!! We got the last of the paperwork through last week, CS has officially ended !! ( or LABMS as I called it !! Lol !!)

DH was SOOO HAPPY, and kind of dazed in a good way. Said he couldn't really believe it, over 17 years of CS is FINISHED !!! He wants to go out and celebrate, HELL YEAH !!!!

It's going to be a fantastic Christmas around here !!!

I'm doing my happy dance ALL OVER the house !!!!!

The End Of LazyAssBMSupport Is Sooo Close I Can Taste It !!!

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Hi StepTalkers, DH is very close to the end of LABMS ( end of the Year !! ) that I can taste it !!! I don't know how things are going to pan out, as recently younger skid has fallen off the radar ( hmmm.... ) Though DH would rather walk hot coals, I think, than have a big old discussion about finding a job, etc, etc !! Wouldn't want to hurt his feelings so he would stop contacting him !! ( I think it's going to happen anyway, as well the moneytrain is stopping VERY soon !! )

Is That The Karma Fairy I See Circling ???

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I think the Karma Fairy may be circling around BM. }:) DH gets news from younger skid ( 19, dropped school last year, has been looking for work ever since, while BM milks the CS system for the last drops of LABMS, in other words, an extra 18 mths of CS ! By lying to CS and not pushing younger skid to get a job , because it would mean SHE would lose the money !)

The Last Graduation Fiasco

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And one of about fifty reasons, why I don't want to go !!!

Sd21 stb22 did the big Graduation from HS, of course, we paid for everything, the photos, the gown, tickets, etc, etc, it's a big deal here.

Sap bf at the time, also graduating too, on the day you know how it goes, you sit around for hours, the ceremony is long, it's hot, it's a long day!

DH And Holidays......

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If anyone has read my blog, you know we live in a different country to the adult skids. Over the years Dh has flown out the skids regularly, and spent thousands doing this, etc, etc.

We went back to visit them earlier this year, I was hoping this might become a pattern, you know DH flying back to visit them and me remaining disengaged and not going !! I went on the last trip as DH really wanted me to go, long story short, DH didn't enjoy the experience, it was stressful, his family were stressful, etc, etc. No change there, so I wasn't that surprised !!

So I Did Some Research .....

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In my previous blog, I mentioned that with sd21stb22 , she kept saying about how DH could ring here now, she can take calls, DH can ring her NOW, etc, etc !! And how I smelt a big fat sd faced rat ??

Well, I did some research, well, actually, not that much, because DH was already pointing me in the right direction with this behaviour...

1. DH didn't ring sd back over the weekend, or the next, or the next.... VERY strange, as usually he will be picking up that phone as soon as she tells him to !!

What Is YOUR Skid doing This Summer ????

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Morning All !! I am pissed off and sharing my vent on here, because I have no one else to talk to here, who understands the World Of StepDoom !!

My ADULT skid sd21 , stb 22 , by the way, is still in school, she lives with the sap bf and a bunch of other 'pals' ( all students, I think, )

DH recieves a VERY long memail from her at the weekend, and once again, goes ahead IN PUBLIC, to try and read it out to me ( are you kidding me ??) he did this before and it really ANNOYS me !!! He was reading it off his phone, but I interrupted him with THE LOOK !!!

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