Why can't my skids just Skype with my DH and be done with it ?? These ADULT skids are NOT working , one is not doing anything the other is just staying in education, like forever..... I really believe she will be like nearly 30 before she is working full time, at this rate.....

They both have ALL the equipment needed, of course, laptops, etc, AND already spend hours on the Internet, FakeBooking, Twerping, Mumbling, etc.... So no big chore giving dear ol' Dad say ten minutes of your time, once a month for a quick hello !! He would get to see them, wouldn't feel soooo guilty for being sooo far away ( forgive us for actually HAVING a life, BEYOND ADULT SKIDS !! How rude !!!)

All, this talk of flying them out and spending thousands on these trips for ADULTS who wouldn't even spend some spare change on a cheapo card for him, makes my blood boil......

I have argued the Skype arguement, or something similar, for like years, but DH doesn't want to push it. Hell, maybe what I've been suggesting is crazy...... Why Skype with DH skids, when you'd rather talk to crazee strangers on it, or in sd21's case, skype sex with the sap bf at the time AND post the pictures of it !!!

My skids really can't be bothered, and DH definately DOESN'T want to hear that, who would ?? Plus, I know they much prefer him this way, being guilty and ready to jump through a hoop or two for them...... And I think MY DH also feeds of the situation, too, his ickle babies need him, guilty Dad turns into super Dad......

When did it stop being enough for these parents, to be proud to have raised healthy, polite, hard working young Adults with prospects! Out there in the World doing it ?? Rather than these awful skids, who keep their hands stretched out, don't work and wait for everything to fall into their entitled laps ??? Makes my skin crawl sometimes......