I feel like strangling my husband. Not because of anything he did per se, but because he's the reason I have so little control over certain aspects of my life.

Update:
BM has a new bf who apparently has moved in with her. Good timing for her, since she no longer has a job. Said bf has taken a keen interest in SS11, and does a lot of stuff with him. However, boyfriend (and BM) totally ignore SD13, and she gets sent to her room to watch TV etc.

So guess whose job is gone? Yup BM. The person she was "care-taking" died. And she's so devastated that she needs a "get-away" long weekend, and wants me to have the kids an extra day that they are off from school. Yes - me specifically - because she knows DH has to work, including the weekend. I figure she's taking the weekend to plan her strategy on how to get more money out of DH. Great timing too, with baby coming soon.

Just spoke to my MIL (DH's mom). She says to let her know if DH ever steps a foot in the ex-in-laws' house because that will be it, she and his father are prepared to write him off! :jawdrop: She said she would be sorry for me and my children the day that ever happened because we are innocent in this whole thing, but that she'd have nothing to do with her son if he chooses to socialize with these people who have never ever supported him, done him so many wrongs and cannot be trusted. And she made it very clear that she does not want my kids going to the ex-in-laws' house either.

So DH got a new phone for work, one of those smart phones. It's so smart and connected that it links everything, so somehow it automatically linked a picture of BM to her phone number (from email or FB or somewhere, even though she's blocked on email chat and FB).

It was annoying me. I'm one of those who will pick up his phone and look through it, and he knows it, doesn't like it, but accepts it. He's also welcome to go through my phone anytime. Anyway, so this picture, all jazzed up of course, wasn't really adding much to my life other than annoyance.