Actions speak louder than words - I deleted BM's picture from DH's phone.

So DH got a new phone for work, one of those smart phones. It's so smart and connected that it links everything, so somehow it automatically linked a picture of BM to her phone number (from email or FB or somewhere, even though she's blocked on email chat and FB).

It was annoying me. I'm one of those who will pick up his phone and look through it, and he knows it, doesn't like it, but accepts it. He's also welcome to go through my phone anytime. Anyway, so this picture, all jazzed up of course, wasn't really adding much to my life other than annoyance.

Also, SD, probably due to always having her own phone on silent (sneaky, right?), has developed extremely acute vision and can tell when BM is calling DH's phone with the merest glance, quite possibly by seeing the picture, as I think she probably has the same pic on her phone. That is also annoying, because even if DH ignores the call because we're having dinner or watching a movie etc., SD makes sure to point it out.

Anyway, I deleted the picture, changed her name to "X", all without warning DH. He figured it out 4 days later, when he needed to call her for something and his "smart" phone couldn't find her, and he didn't know her number by heart. He had a sort of blank, subdued expression on his face when I told him what I did and explained why, but no comment other than to ask when I had the time to do all of that. I totally spared him having to listen to my whiny complaint about something he probably thinks is insignificant, and just changed it myself without having to beg and justify to get it changed. Pretty damn good feeling.

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I'd flip the hell out if my

I'd flip the hell out if my DH had a picture of BM on his phone, or anywhere for that matter but my DH would have deleted it the minute it popped up.. hell he doesn't want to see her nasty face either! that is strange that your DH just left the picture on there.. it only takes 2 seconds to delete.

And where the heck did the picture come from if she is not his FB friend or chat contact?? Do you think SD put it on there?

Doubt it was SD, she has been

Doubt it was SD, she has been warned. She likes to pick up people's phones and but never let's anyone even breathe close to hers. No one trusts her.

Phone's new, I'm sure DH would have figured it out soon enough, but he's been so busy, he just hasn't had a chance to play around with it enough. He's defintely a little pissed I figured out stuff on his phone, but not at all even remotely pissed about what I did!! Hehe..,

GOOD for you!! her skanky

GOOD for you!! her skanky ass picture doesn't need to be onhis phone!!!

FFC pops up on dh's phone when BM calls, wonder when skids are going to ask what that means...

My DH has a picture attached

My DH has a picture attached to BM's number in his phone. Of course it's a picture of Godzilla with the Godzilla theme song as her ringtone.

LOVE IT!!!!!! I'm dying right

LOVE IT!!!!!!
I'm dying right now with giggles.

ha ha i think one poster has

ha ha i think one poster has the tornado alert warning siren for the BM"s ringtone!!

One time I was monkeying with

One time I was monkeying with GG's cell (the one I was paying for and was Prince Hygiene's Entitlement Hotline) SO I put something uncomplementary as the contact listing for the Behemoth. Yeah he thought it was confusing and UNfunny, so he made me take it off and switch it back to the Behemoth's first name. NO sense of humour. Umm isn't that one of the characteristics of a narcissist?

GG already did that. He went

GG already did that. He went through my emails and deleted all my password files and all my saved emails. INCLUDING his "love emails" to me from the early days!!

Oh, if someone fiddled with

Oh, if someone fiddled with my phone wihtout permission, I would feel invaded.

But I have full permission to fiddle with my husband's phone.

DH doesn't have a picture of

DH doesn't have a picture of BM assigned to her contact in his smart phone. I do though on mine. It's a picture of a dark gloomy sky with silhouetted geese fleeing the storm! Her ringtone? I downloaded one that's completely silent. I prefer to communicate (if I must) via text but she is not tech savvy and is lazy so she tends to call instead, even if the text was a simple "yes or no" question. She does the same to DH too (he hates the sound of her voice so prefers texting too). When she does call me, at least I can't hear it, can't get irritated.

Haha! I love it! Good for

Haha! I love it! Good for you!

It still burns my ass that my H has his XW in his phone with her first name AND last name. She only kept his last name to be an asshole and because she didn't want everyone to remember/think she is a slut. Having the same name as her son must wash away all those other dicks she rode while they were married...

I WOULD apologize for being a potty mouth. But that would only make me a potty-mouthed liar...

(I'm preeeeeety sure that's about to be my new tagline. LMAO!)

I HATE that my FDH XW kept

I HATE that my FDH XW kept his last name.....he asked her if she was ever going to change it..she said "yeah, when I get married again" Soooo that will be NEVER since she is a fat piece of shit lowlife! Grrrr

Yep, BM kept DH's last name

Yep, BM kept DH's last name "for the sake of SS11" plus her maiden name kinda sucks. I imagine she spent her whole life telling people how to pronounce it whereas my DH's name is easily pronounced. Anyway, I insist on addressing any mail we send to her by her current married name. Besides, I think her husband doesn't like that she hasn't changed her name. I have a daughter from a previous marriage and I reverted to my maiden name after the divorce (I made sure it was in the decree) so now, I have DH's last name. I know that it's the option of the ex-wife as to what name to use but I think she wants to hold on to some things. She's always trying to stay in touch and ask questions about DH's family, my in-laws etc. when they absolutely can't stand her for the way she treated DH and the way she abandoned SS.

Well in my case, the bitch

Well in my case, the bitch SWORE she was going to change her name... Couldn't wait to. Then when she found out (days before it was finalized) he was dating someone (me) she decided to keep it. Smh... Bitch.

Like you said, she'll definitely change her name when and if she ever manages to fool someone else into thinking she's Queen Christian. The poor man won't know he's actually marrying a 34-year-old grandmother who has been whoring around since her early teens and didn't stop just because she said "I do". And the bitch has NERVE to ask us if we're ever going to take HER son to church when he's with us.

Um, yeah... Because YOU'RE a great example of what's great about people who attend church three times a week, sing in the choir, etc... I'd rather spend my time loving other, volunteering in my community, and generally being an awesome person. Thanks!