A few days ago I posted about the ironing situation with DH & SS. I want to thank everyone who commented especially Echo who was really straight talking and gave me some good advice.Quite often when you are in a situation you don't always see the most obvious solution and need an outside person to set you straight.

I was doing the washing earlier this week & surprise,surprise I found a lighter in SS13 trouser pocket.This is the same kid who stole matches from our house in March & started a fire at school.I told DH & he said he would talk to SS,he apparently also spoke to SS a week earlier when he found out he was selling an e-cigarette at school.So Tuesday SS comes along to us as usual & do you think DH had words with him & gave out a suitable punishment?Of course not!He did however take SS to watch a football game & told him how he had purchased his ticket for the haunt fest t

It is SIL's (Debbie) big 40th party this weekend. This SIL is friends with BM on FB, as well as, in real life. In January when SS13 had his football tournament & both the SILS had an arguement & MIL had an arguement with Debbie,I said to DH afterward I will not be attending the party as Debbie is HIS sister & it makes me ill that she is all buddy,buddy with BM after BM cheated on DH.Where does SIL loyalty lie?

A while back I posted how DH went off on a 4 day holiday with SS13 & I couldn't go with as the 2 good catteries in our area were full up so I couldn't leave my furkids.I was delighted with this and had a peaceful 4 days enjoying the peace,cleanliness & quiet & the company of my cats.DH came back from said holiday looking totally frazzled as SS had been his usual "charming" self (read spoilt,entitled brat-totally BOTH bio parents fault).