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Husband picked up more painkiller for me at the drugstore.

I do appreciate it but.....

He had difficulty obtaining it because after fifteen years of marriage he still can't remember my birthday.

I told him if I suddenly collapse am unresposive and being shipped to ER I will be fucked if my kids aren't around because he can't even remember my two main health issues which are past TIAs and high probability of stroke due to family and medical history and the thyroid disorder I've had for so long.

Dinner and the following hours were thankfully uneventful.

Trying so hard not to hate him right now

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In my last entry I mentioned oral surgery and how husband is being annoying.

The survery was a biopsy of my tongue. This spot has been biopsied twice before and been present for about ten years. This time the doc said he needed to put me completely under and just remove the whole area which is basically about one eighth of my tongue. I have stitches going back to my throat and I'm very uncomfortable.

Whinig and venting can't say it anywhere else

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Just had oral surgery last week. Trying to just take my meds and not whine but getting really pissed.

Can't eat now that general is out of my system. Can only do milkshakes. Everything else hurts.

Maybe the pain is just making me cranky. I finally got to sleep Saturday morning and DH comes busting into the living room at seven making all kinds of noise. Normally he'll sleep until after noon.

Every time I finally go to sleep he'll slam a doir or the keyboard drawer on the computer.

Or he'll be ranting and raving or arguing with my 17 y/o son.

Grandpa

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At the dinner table last night we are discussing how credit should only be used for houses cars and higher education. DH is talking about how grandpa made a really good financial move on his last home purchase.

Me and my bios stare at him.

Grandpa is disabled and lives in a rental.

I ask ,"what Grandpa is this?"

DH:"Grandpa XWMaidenname"

"Oh That grandpa. The one that nobody at this dinner table is related to. Now it all makes perfect sense"

We finish eating. The only sound I can hear is the quiet popping of my brain cells as they die.

Dude... Wait... What?

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So lately there has been a spate of posts dealing with exes who can't/won't let go.

I remembered this little gem from about six months back.

So my kids are teenagers and they call each other dude all the time, as teenagers are wont to do.

H is super annoyed by it and claims it's hugely disrespectfully, tacky, blah, blah, blah.

I ask where is the disrespect? They aren't calling US dude(like a certain SD who shall remain nameless) they are calling eachother dude. How is this disrespectful to us?

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