It doesn't seem to matter that we had plans.He doesn't even think it is necessary to ask me for my opinion.When stupid bith BM tells him he needs to take his child he doesn't hesitate to say yes even though we had plans and it doesn't suit .When I told him that he should have talked to me before and hung up on his ex to discuss things with me first he said he "doesn't treat people like this!".So it is ok to treat me like this , but not BM.
I sit here and can't stop crying for let down like this again.

As I did her washing I found a black little bra.This is so silly and not practical.As I stated before it seems very important to BM and SD that she gets prepared for her later adult life -in a night club.BM also straightens her hair and SD is totally self absorbed, can't walk by any mirror.Where are the kids that like to climb on trees , living adventures and being kids???Why has SD to be enforced in her belief she is an adult??????

Every year my partners parents come to stay here for 8 weeks.Last year we didn't live together yet, but this year it is full on .I am totally exhausted, his mom is helpful and cooks and even does the washing, but she is so bossy , completely overtook my house and I feel as if I am a guest in my own home most times.8 blooody weeks, guys, 8 blooody weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is not a big deal, all our kids in this family forget things at times, this morning it was SD7's turn to forget to put away her dishes.Part of the problem is probably that her grandparents are staying with us for 8 weeks (!) and do anything for her as if she is a baby.
Forgetting something is one thing , but why does SO have to tell her again what a "good girl" she is and what a great helper etc if she forgot her chores and needed to be reminded.A normal" thanks" would have been ok or even a "try not to forget it next time" much more appropriate.