I totally forgot the thought of it.But this month is supposed to be the month where we are supposed to get SD 8 princess mini wife for 2 whole weeks since BM gets married overseas. I honestly thought about this as something far far away, but today it hit me that it is may now and this is going to happen.I want to puke.Any encouragements?Or- can I come and live in anyones house while she resides in mine????I clean and buy wine!!O god. :((( :sick:

:jawdrop: I am totally stressed because I found out that Exhb and his gf want to move into our immediate neighbourhood (the kids were telling me and the gf texted me about being in the area) I feel threatened by this since exhb already caused me so much stress and the last thing I want is to have him anywhere near me.I don't understand why they even consider this-there are several suburbs closer to their work and although ours is very, very nice and upmarket there are so many other suburbs that are as good as this one.

...and SD 8 is laying on my side of the bed next to SO. :jawdrop: And she has often head lice. And I have hair extension.Sigh!!!I don't like that!!!!!!!! :sick:

SO wants us to do some councelling- for his anger issues (screaming) and also for us because we have issues with the kids.I think this is a great idea and gives me some home.However I am concerned that it can make things worse! i remember there was a lady with a horrible horrible teenage SD who wanted nothing else than to destroy her SM and Dads rs- that stupid idiot councellor they saw encouraged them to allow her to sleep in between them in their bed!!!!Such stories make me scared!!