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Court today, Definitely one of my top 5 worst days. Very long, read through to the end, last bit is a doozy.

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Submitted by luchay on Thu, 11/13/2014 - 5:13am

Get there about 9.15am (needed to be there at 9.30) parked in the car park and he is right opposite me. Walks in just as I am getting out of my car.

There is a queue inside a mile long for intervention orders, all parties have to line up and be checked off as being present, so I walk to the back of the line - slowly.... But am still right behind him, I wait back and allow a few people in between.

Update :)

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Submitted by luchay on Tue, 11/11/2014 - 9:51pm

Hello lovely ladies of StepTalk (and even those of you who are not so lovely)

Well, it's been a roller coaster ride even just the last three days.

I have had good moments and some pretty low ones as well.

Taking control.... and who would have guessed

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Submitted by luchay on Thu, 11/06/2014 - 8:37pm

(This is a lot longer that I expected to be LOL but read to the end - I have taken a stand - and there are some funny bits!)

the considerate, thoughtful OH lasted less than two weeks, normal selfish bastard has returned just in time for the skids weekend - who'd have thought!

Just a little pissy moan about SD and her "I am the queen of the universe attitude because she's pissed me off the last two Wednesdays before I get started (LOL)

Brief blog, only leaving here for a few hours.

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Submitted by luchay on Tue, 11/04/2014 - 7:40pm

So, I posted a few weeks ago about my shock baby news, only left it up for a few hours as well as I felt that given all the risks it was too early and I was tempting fate.

We lost our baby a week and a half ago.

I am devastated, which feels strange, because it wasn't a planned baby, we are WAY too old to be doing all that again (I am 47 he is 49) It has just been a rollercoaster lately and I am not coping well.

I TOLD YOU FUCKING SO OH!

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Submitted by luchay on Wed, 08/20/2014 - 10:33pm

Yes, I did say that to him last night.

See last blog for the birthday present backstory.

Last night all the kids have an acro class, usually we all go together, they do the hour class while we hang out together then we all go home. The next two terms my dd's have an extra hour class before hand (concert routine - the skids aren't doing it) so at the moment I drive my kids over there for 5pm, hang out in the car, OH arrives with the skids at 6pm and we spend the hour together then we all drive home separately.

I am so hurt I could cry, am I being ridiculous?

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Submitted by luchay on Wed, 07/23/2014 - 8:24pm

So, after the mess on Tuesday with BM/skids OH and I had a screaming fight later that night and are not talking at the moment.

It was SD's birthday yesterday - we had discussed what her present from us was - an exclusive Day with her dad. Including an hour at a trampolining place she loves, lunch and $50 to spend the afternoon hanging out and buy her present.

My birthday was last Friday - I got a $60 voucher for a cheap teenagers clothing shop - not somewhere I have EVER bought clothes for myself (it's not the cheap part but that it's not really aimed at my demographic)

WTF is it with BM's who can't deal with their own kids

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Submitted by luchay on Tue, 07/22/2014 - 2:52am

OH has just called me.

SD14 just rang him, hysterical begging him to come and get them because BM has gone off her trolley at them and told them to get the fuck out of her house.

He could here her screaming at them in the background.

So now he is on his way to get them,

And I feel like such a bitch because all I can think about is NOOOOOOOOO I don't want them here, I don't want MY peaceful night interrupted with more of their BS, drama and crap. All three of them I wish them in hell right now.

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