Okay, so my DH obviously did something pretty good, right? Well, as I mentioned in other posts, I finally spoke my mind after 4 years to BM, nothng degrading or diminishing, simply the facts as I saw them. But I had never done that before, so she was none too pleased about it. She is now saying that she is going to take us to court, which we are preparing for. I think it will actually be good, because she has so much money, and we go so above and beyond what is ordered with finances, transportation and visitation, that things may actually finally get to some semblance of fair.

So, after nearly 4 years of unfair treatment, accusations to my DH, unreasonable demands and verbal abuse, I FINALLY gave BM a piece of my mind. I used no expletives or unfair language at all, I was perfectly reasonable, and I told her exactly what I thought of her in a perfectly reasonable manner. In fact, it was so good, I think a judge would even approve, good thing, because I sent it in an email.

HI, I haven't written in a while, I have just been reading. Things have been reasonably tame here for a while. Until last night, when I started to try and figure out why my work computer was running so slowly. Now, this is the only computer in the house, and it doesn't even belong to me, it belongs to my company. It is supposed to be used for work only, but I let the kids use it as long as they ask and tell us exactly what websites they are going to. My BD respects this, and has never broken the rule, knowing how important this computer is to this family.

Okay, so I said something to my DH that I now feel bad about. I mean, it was the way I feel, but I should have censored it a little bit. A little background, though most of you already know, I am pregnant with twins, have one dauhter 8, one SD 11, and one SS 12. I am currently in a small, 2 bdrm. condo, and am having significant difficulty selling or renting out my condo to move into a bigger place before the twins come. This has put DH and I under a great deal of stress. When his kids come over, it is very crowded and loud here.