I hate that we have different parenting styles!! Hate it!!

I feel like with all the stuff that happened, dh is trying to pick on my kid.

Like ss is here all day everyday, my kid is weekends. Dh is trying really hard to find my faults in parenting.

This weekend bs was only here saturday night and sunday. He spent the night at a friends friday. We picked him up saturday afternoon, got back home around 630pm.

We talked to ss13. Well dh talked to him first. He asked him how this woman was around him, any touching, ss said no.

So after they talked, we all talked together.

Of course dh did not ask him how the pics came about. I had to press on that.

Ss said- he was at her house, he told her about the photo app. Was showing it to her. And he did not mind cropping/editing photos. Thats why there is no text between pics and the pics were sent back and forth. Then he went on with she does not have the app and something about you have to buy it.

Halloween went great!

So fun.

This year dh was very busy so he had no time to take ss13 to the store for a costume. He did not ask me to take him. (I think he was waiting for me to offer, mwahaha, i never did!)

So ss was going on about wanting to get a panda costume, you usually have to order something like that. I told him to look and let us know prices, if he could find in store we could run and get it. If on-line i could order it, but im not doing the work oh no.

Well he never puts in any effort, and im not going to keep asking.

I made it through the whole weekend without arguing. I stayed far away from ss spend the night. The only time i said anything "parenty" was at 12:30am, dh was snoring but the kid he invited over was just talking and talking and they were banging ss bunkbed against the wall. So i shut that down. That was it though.

Well my good vibes ended yesterday...