I have not been on. I joined the moms club near me, and dh has been on ss13 about school and chores.(he went to a parent teacher thing, saw ss unfinished work) So its been pretty decent around here.

Dhs grandma passed away before christmas, so dh was a bit of a mess for christmas break. Which means ss was around me more. I feel i have been patient with ss, ignoring certain things, but this acting dumb thing is getting on my nerves.

Ive been around him all break, and this weekend he was up our butts, not sure why, but i tried to ignore the "im dumb" act. I started going in sarcastic mode, which of course puts dh on defense. Oh well. I just cant keep up answering dumb questions.

I made breakfast-ss loves fried eggs. I made him a fried egg, but could not eat all the scrambled eggs, so i put the rest on ss plate. He comes down-looks at the plate- says "whats different about these eggs?" I go "are you kidding?" Him"uh well i see one is fried, and one is scrambled, but uh whats the difference?" Me blank face.

One thing he has been doing over christmas break and the past two nights, is asking "where is baby girl?" Your 13 i think you can use your brain to see its 9pm, we did not leave the house all day. Where would baby girl be-her bed!! I dont care if he is trying to start a convo(as dr. Phil would suggest) so i started saying shes outside, i left her in the car..whatever... he says "oh your joking, well how am i supposed to know where she is?" Well she is 3, dont think she is driving anywhere. (Our house is not big either, you go in the main room downstairs you can pretty much see in every room)

Anyway -besides ss annoying convo/questions- dh was home for 2 weeks! The first week was rough because dh was helping with his grandmas funeral(his uncle was a mess) and he was on a "if i die kick", but after that he got on this cooking with me kick, it was fun.

I just cant wait for the moms group to pick back up. There was a big gap, because of sick kids, parents, and holidays. Ive got two moms i like so far, have not invited them over yet, but im hopeful for this summer. Im trying very hard to be more open, cause i normally-with groups- zone in on one or two people and thats it. So im trying to get to know more moms before i invite one over. Buuutt i already hate 2 kids. Lol. This lil girl that just turned 4, has a baby brother, and mom is treasurer, but she is mean! She was pretty much push little kids out of her way, snatchy, and i feel mom is a "i dont want to make you upset in public" so she does not correct her.

And this lil boy thats an only child, and you can tell he is an only child, and mom lets you know "he is my life". Ughh

But im hoping to make a few new friends.

Anyway i hope you all had a decent/great holiday! Im trying to catch up on some of you steptalkers!#