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Why does this bother me???

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I keep hearing this same question from my BF every time we have the disagreement and I'm still not quite sure myself. I can only grasp at possibilities of why this bugs me, but not 100% sure. My BF and I do not live together. I won't move in for multiple reasons, the majority of them being the kids. SS10 and SS12.

Is there any possibility that this will work...

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or am I just daydreaming? I've posted before about me not living with BF of 4 years due to the kids and the fact that I have 2 senior dogs to take care of and BF does not have a fence around his property. I also refuse to give up everything that I own and work for in my own house to move into someone else's as a roommate, particularly when I have no say over anything re: the kids.

Hell yes I'm jealous!

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...and I can’t figure out how to get over it.

I admit that I do have a lot more alone time with BF of nearly 4 years than a lot of people do, but living alone and being divorced for 3 years when I was so used to being with someone for the previous 15 years is hard to get used to and I still get lonely. We currently see each other about 2-3 hours a night and spend Sunday afternoons together. I am the type that needs more quality time and closeness with BF, but can’t get it because I can’t/won’t move in.

Confused, lonely and not sure what to do...

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Maybe it's PMS LOL but I'm so stuck in a rut right now, emotionally drained and not sure which way to turn.

Been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He has 2 kids (10 and 11) who are at his house every other weekend, plus every day they have off of school, spring break, multiple weeks during the summer, the entire Christmas break, etc. When we met he only had the kids every other weekend. I would not have agreed to date him if I knew at that time that he had his kids nearly 50% of the time. Unfortunately now it's too late because we fell in love.

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