I didn't even speak to him today, but I came home to a house clean, yard deweeded, started on ss's laundry, some landscaping done, ss's meds picked up, dh has called about his. He gave ss a dressing down which the asshole smiled when dh talked about consequences he will receive. Actually he smiled several times. What an ass. He was sent to the office to do his work today, fell asleep in there, and missed his last class. Wtf?

Well it was supposed to be a ss free weekend, right? evidently BM just couldnt keep him longer than one night. Ugh- this woman did not even want her son on mothers day. Sent him back Saturday afternoon. We did let him stay with a friend sat nite so I really only had to spend Sunday with him.

So dh had some pals over tonite. Evidently the pals were out front while ss and ds were playing basketball. Evidently something went down and my ds ended up " slapping" ss. He realized what he did and apologized immediately to ss. Pal went and told dh- dh grounded my ds for the weekend. Ds's story is that ss threw the basketball at his face and he was retaliating. I have no idea what truly occurred as I was not there- which neither was dh

SS has not seen bm in about 4 months. Has only seen her maybe 3 times in the last year or so. But guess what? She's already called to ask for him this weekend and has even secured a ride to our meeting place. She wants to celebrate her maternal feelings on Mothers Day with her darling son whom I wish to God she'd just take back. But she doesnt want him effing up her life,so she just sees him a couple of times a year. Lovely.