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Wrote a LONG rant...with expletives GONE...MORE EXPLETIVES

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Okay....wrote this all once....going to do it again...maybe make it shorter....so maybe not a bad thing...because it did actually end up pretty long.

Wednesday...kids go to "other parents"...shouldn't be and issue...should be NO drama...should be easy peasy...right???? WRONG!!!

My DH has been my rock...and he even stood up to BM and impressed the hell out of me.

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It's been a trying couple of weeks. Right after returning home from my SIL's funeral, two days later my father went in to ICU and remained there for four days. Afterwards he was hospitalized for three more before we were able to take him home. They wanted us to put him in a nursing home. He's 64 and has end stage liver disease. I made some calls and he was eligible for hospice and his insurance would pay it 100% so I asked the Dr to discharge him and brought him and my mom home with home hospice. He's actually doing quite well at home. You always feel better in your own house.

Update...since I've been "absent' for a while.

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I know I haven't posted in a while but I have been reading and keeping up on things. My life has sort of overwhelmed me.

I had my last session with our counselor about a month ago, (our insurance will not pay for any more until next year) and along with some working out of things she recommended I see my physician as she felt I was "situationally clinically depressed". I needed to anyway so that gave me the push to do my whole checkup etc.

Just a rant...petty actually but I'm sick of it!

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So BM who wants everything for nothing, doesn't do for her kids unless court ordered, hauls us to court constantly, bad mouths DH and I to skids, and basically lives to try to make life miserable over here also expects us to give her benefits. After all this bitch has done to us over the last four years I'm at my end and have had enough. It pisses me off when I don't see DH being as aggressive about stopping the nonsense.

Teens, drama, exes and then having to worry about BD12

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So less than 12 hours after leaving the courthouse from the custody hearing with exH my BDstb15 texts me and says "we have a problem, mom I'm really worried". So I ask what's going on. Now since the beginning of the school year my YBD and my exH gf's MBD have been attending the same school, and are in the same grade. This is a new school for gf's BD no Jr. High is a tough age. Along with the fact that my BD12 doesn't like her at all, and that exH has been trying to force BD12 to show her around, introduce her to her friends, involve the other girl in the activities that our daughter does.

Oh BM and exH...you would think you'd have learned by now NOT to mess with ME!

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WARNING: This includes some not very nice, nor lady like language. You may want to avoid if that tends to offend you.

So today was a day of all sorts of new dramas and enlightenments regarding BM and my exH. Let's start at the beginning of the day....

Suck on that BM!! Now leave us the HELL ALONE!!!

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So DH and I were in court Fri because BM was filing for EOW custody. It was a threshold hearing. Well, can I say I am so glad I was there!!! It was FUN...seriously...the judge handed BM her ass on a platter. The STUPID RIDICULOUS things she said, and then the judge just blasting back at her. Comical!! And of course she was denied. Here's a couple of the funniest highlights...

BS needs stability...would I be out of line for asking exH to "make a deal"? Need some advice

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So as I posted a week ago, my exH filed for mediation for 50/50 custody. He moved 6 blocks from my home two months ago with his gf and her 3 FT girls and one that comes and goes as she pleases. He says it's to spend time with his kids, but in reality it's mostly to get his CS lowered by gaining overnights. He is supposed to cover our three kids under insurance but was fired from his job so my DH stepped up and added my bios to his insurance plan that cover us and skids.

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