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So I'm sitting at the table with OBD assisting with homework...into hour two btw...when DH comes by on his way to get dressed for work and says "hey hanging can you come here?" Now I will admit...slightly irritated...he knows I'm helping BD, he knows she is struggling and my straight A student just isn't getting geometry and has a poor grade, so I'm thinking to myself "really? You know what I'm doing...I've been at it for about two hours...what could you possibly need me for?" So I tell my daughter, keep working on that and I'll be right back.

So HARD being right...even HARDER not saying anything!

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So I as blogged previously I had told my DH that I was no longer going to be responsible for his kids due to the tension and arguments that we have because he doesn't hold his kids accountable and I'm tired of the arguments and being the bad guy. This has a lot to do with OSS and his behavior and with the school yea approaching I was already stressing about what that does to our relationship and me and our household. Due didn't like that much and I of course heard the "you are already against OSS by believing he will cause problems because of his school work!

Court, court and more court. Sheesh!

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So today my exH and I had mediation regarding his request for a change in parenting time to EOW. I dispute his motion as he works during the day and holds a second job 4 nights a week for "extra money" while his gf and her four or sometimes just three kids live with him. His only reason for wanting EOW is to lower his child support by getting additional overnights.

UPDATE re skid at table. And I just ACED my nomination for Most EVIL Stepmother of the YEAR!

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First, CHEERS to me! I gladly accept this nomination on behalf of all SMS out there! Thank you for the wonderful honor! I couldn't have done it without my lovely skids.

So skid said, "I think what may have happened..." No skid, you will say what happened. Man up. Skid: I don't remember exactly but I somehow bumped BS's glasses off his face and I picked them up and was putting them back on Him (yeah...cuz you were being helpful right? What a load of bullshit!). "

Drives me crazy when DH tries to text about arguments!!

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So last night I got a text from DH at work "Are we ever going to be able to save this or is it just doomed because of our personalities?" I responded IDK. This started a whole text conversation where he basically told me we got married a year ago and agreed to share our lives, all of it, not just the good and now I'm trying to back out of that. I told him it's not backing out, it's being respectful of his place and parenting and his choices in regards to his kids. That it is not pushing my ideas and values on him and allowing him the ability to do what he feels is the right thing.

And here's why i say MIL is psycho

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So due to recent events with DH and all, someone (it may have been Sweet Pea) brought up the question of if DH has been being "poisoned" again....someone in his ear. Well I decided to look and see if the psycho bitch has been calling. Apparently at some point DH blocked his mother's number, therefore she hasn't called....but oh she's left messages! The iPhone saves them under blocked messages. Listened...and it ridiculous...here is the transcription....and he wonders why I say she needs to stay the F out of our lives....

The shit hit the fan and I am done! Laid it out and he got nothing...

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So tense here lately with the Bs regarding making OSS be responsible. DH wrote him a check from OUR account, and I asked him "did SS get the $ yet?" He got so pissed off. Yelling at me and bitching. I just said "all I did was ask a ?, when you are done with your tantrum let me know and we can talk". On and on he goes about how he can't control his fucking ex wife!! I looked at him and said "who brought your ex wife in to this?

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