Ok, so the other day SD6 was here with us and she wanted to spend her mom's birthday with her, so DH was going to drop her off at her mother's house. SD came to me and asked me what should she wear, and I told her that I was going to help her find her clothes and was walking with her to her room when she said that she wanted to wear X dress, I said no, that dress is dirty and then she said "But I like that dress". I consider that talking back, so I just told her go ahead and look for something yourself, and came back to my room.

This is an answer I provided for AlexandraL's post about this subject. I decided to make it a blog entry since I want to explain in more detail some examples of what really means putting your child/spouse first. I would also love to see some examples from Storiesbysteve who has had a 30 year old marriage with a woman who has put her children first, and has put this in actual words.

Without further due, here is my post:

Ok, so DH and I got into this argument, inititated by my great curiosity and my thirst to micromanage every detail. We had not seen BM since she was pregnant, but she already had her baby and DH was going to pick SD6 today at BM's house. I asked, out of curiosity if he was going to ask to see the baby, he said no, and then I asked, what would he say if she asked if he wanted to see him? and he said "I'd say sure" and then I proceeded to ask him if we have a baby of our own, would he ask her if she wants to see him/her and he basically said "yes, that would be SD6's sibling".

Ok so this is freaking me out. I have read and heard about how SLS is so bad for your skin and can even cause skin cancer. Almost all of the products that foam up contain this ingredient. Face wash, shampoos, dish soap, detergent...

This is one link i found:

http://www.natural-health-information-centre.com/sodium-lauryl-sulfate.html

I went to check all of the products I have in the categories I mentioned, and they ALL contain this ingredient because it is cheap to make. :O