Yup. I finally dreamed it. I knew sooner or later I would.

In my defense, in the dream BM was trying to murder me. She had some crazy room set up like in the movie SAW where these blades would come put and the end result was basically you would get chopped into four pieces regardless of what you did to escape. A dead girl was already on the floor, neatly quartered.

So DH apparently has lost his mind.

My ss16 is notoriously lazy, has to be pushed to do ANYTHING, and then even when he does do it, he does it with minimal effort. SS keeps getting cut from work, so SS told DH he was looking for another job. DH tells him that I will hire him to mow and weed whack on the farm for the summer. True, I am looking to hire some high school kid to work for me all summer, but SS is not the kind of kid I would hire.

Does anyone elses DH do this?

Often around the skids, specifically Prince (SS16) DH just acts like such a douche. He tries SO HARD to be likeable and funny and to try desperately to get SS to engage with him. He gets all cheesy and tries to make puns and when he laughs its very phoney and the only way I can describe it is "HAYUCK YUCK YUCK". It's really fake and overdone.

I have long since been tired of the dynamic that DH does all the leg work for BM. She lives about 40 minutes away, and he drops off and picks up nearly 90+% of the time. For a few years, it was 100% of the time. Sometimes now BM will bring SS back, but only because he has to go to work. A few times she's "had headaches" or the infamous "car trouble" and needed SS picked up with a moments notice to make it to work on time. Him doing all the leg work has been going on for YEARS.