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The Sock Debacle and the Laundry Debacle

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Fri, 01/03/2014 - 11:55am

So, we live on a big farm, and it's cold here. I was getting dressed and was digging through the clean laundry basket in our bedroom. I found a nice, fat, super soft sock. I held it up to DH and said "this sock is thick!" and promptly began searching out the mate of the pair. I was going to wear said warm sock on this chilly day.

DH quickly replied that "That sock is SS's!", and he picks it up off the bed. SS is 16.

My Heart is Sinking.

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Mon, 12/09/2013 - 2:11pm

Sigh. Recently I have been lamenting that I am in a relatively romance and sex free marriage. It's an ongoing problem, and something I have felt powerless to change.

I saw a movie the other day that brought back the memory of all of those very special feelings- both the physical ones and the emotional ones. I was drowning in my sorrows of sad I was to not feel like much of a woman anymore when I had an epiphany....

My list of little resentments...... Share yours!

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Sun, 11/24/2013 - 4:32pm

All in all things have been OK on my home front, but I do have some thoughts knocking about in my brain tonight that I would like to vent.

* I resent always doing for people (skids) who are never expected to do anything in return for me. In fact, any expectation that would do anything back for me is met with hostility and resistance from DH.

No, DH. I DON'T think giving a Skid with emotional problems weapons is OK.

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Fri, 11/15/2013 - 8:15pm

So, SS16 is a troubled kid. He is diagnosed as ADHD, but more likely falls on the high functioning Autism/Asbergers spectrum. He is not a violent child per se, but he does have anger issue and rage fits. When he gets angry he quickly spirals out of control.

This kid growls at people, makes threatening fists, will tell you "I really want to beat your face in, but I won't", and has been found standing in the hallway staring at my open door glassy eyed just... watching. Staring. With no expression. It's beyond creepy.

I don't want BM in my home.

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Sun, 10/20/2013 - 9:33am

DH and I have been married 7 years, together for 13. BM used to be very volatile and intrude on our lives, basically making it a living hell for many years. We even split up once over her because she "demanded" that I not be around the SKids and DH (then BF) kowtowed to her and seemed to think in his pea brain that we could "date in secret". Um, how about HELL NO.

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