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Submitted by FTMandSM on Thu, 02/06/2014 - 10:37am

So I haven't been on here is almost a week, it feels like FOREVER!! LOL!! So Friday ninght we got the SD. She wrecked havack the whole weekend. Friday night, SD bit SO in the back. She was just laying on him and decided to bite him. Since it happened at 7pm, her punishment was to go to bed early. She hasn't been in her biting stage for over 6 months. She DOES bite at her moms house, and since we missed last weekend because her mom used a weekend, she apparently thought it was ok to start it at our house. Let's move on to Saturday....We drive an hour to go look at furniture with SO's mom.

SD throws BM under the bus again

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Submitted by FTMandSM on Thu, 01/30/2014 - 7:53am

Last night SD comes over for her usual Wednesday visit and the first thing out of her mouth, "You're not nice to mommy." And then I learn "Mommy is going to punch FTMandSM in the head." This is preceeding the comment from a couple weekends ago, "If you don't mind your own business FTMandSM, mommy's going to cut you." JEEZ MOTY, lets keep talking trash in front of your 3yr old daughter. I don't care that you bash me, but promoting this type of violence etc probably isn't the best thing to do.

SO doesn't want to initiate Child Support

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Submitted by FTMandSM on Wed, 01/29/2014 - 9:38am

So I posted last week about BM being pregnant by a man that doesn't want anything to do with her or the baby. A lot of mentioned that my SO better be careful cause she will want to go for more child support. As of now, child support is not through the court. She set up the amount for us to pay and it's not a lot at all. I think SO got off easy. Now since child support isn't through the court, some of you mentioned that he may have to pay back child support if and when BM decides to take him to court. They don't have anything in writing for the child support he pays now.

BM rents too much head space, How can i get this b**ch kicked out....

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Submitted by FTMandSM on Tue, 01/28/2014 - 12:32pm

OK, So I am fairly new to the whole SM thing, 2 years in April. Anyway, I see people referring to the BMs renting too much space in peoples head. How Can I get her out? I don't want to completely disengage from my SD. She is only 3 and hasn't hit her hormonal I hate life teenage years yet and I'm learning to enjoy her. (thanks to this site) BM does things that irritate me sooo much, that sometimes, I find myself obbsessing over what ever it was that she did. I mean, for days sometimes. So, how have some of you managed to not let BM/BD rent so much space and time in your head??

Wonderful Wednesday!!

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Submitted by FTMandSM on Thu, 01/23/2014 - 6:56am

So yesterday was a great day, not only did we get the keys to our new place, but we found out that BM is 7 months pregnant with her 2nd kid!!! LMAO!! I love it! She is 21, living at home, works maybe 2 days a week, and the baby daddy is a felon from getting 3 DUI's in less than 6 months at the age of 21. Wait there's more, he changed his phone number so she can't get in contact with him because she is so crazy. (he was smart) He already has a son with another woman who just up and left. He lives at home with his parents.

Think of the Children!!!!

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Submitted by FTMandSM on Mon, 01/20/2014 - 8:45am

Oh do I hate this saying....Just thinking back to some outrageous situations and how BM always tries to manipulate SO. Example: There was a Sophia the First (a disney princess show) party at a mall on a Saturday. Me and SO were going to take her to it. BM soon learns of the party, calls So to tell him about it. He informs her he already knows and had already made plans to take her. BM asks if she could go and guess what SO said YES!!! WTF are you kidding me??????? Side note: they do NOT get a long and she and I do not get along. I asked him why he agreed to say yes.

Triumph!!! Made BM annoyed and not on purpose! Love that!

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Submitted by FTMandSM on Thu, 01/16/2014 - 9:53am

My SO and myself had SD over the weekend. She is 3 and wanted to paint her nails cause she just loves nail polish. SHe always comes over with nail polish on. SO said sure no problem, thinking it wouldn't be a problem cause it's nail polish for goodness sake. SHe wanted to paint each one a different color, so we did. SD came over last night and said "Mommy said my nails look stupid and that FTMandSM isn't going to like this." Meaning BM changed her nail polish color. Loved the fact that it bothered BM so much that she had to repaint them!!! LOL!!!

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