I just got a call from FDH. He got a call from BM. She is trying to go full time at work. It could be any day of the week, but it would have to be dayshift. As of now, BM has SD Monday to Friday until 4 and then FDH has her Friday at 4 to Sunday at 4. So BM told FDH that she was going to try to get money from the county for babysitting and then give the money to him..Ummmmmm...OOOkkkk....Then she would have to drop off SD the night before so SD wouldn't have to get up and out the door by 5:15am. This means:

FDH got a text from BM saying that why is she sending clothes if he is just going to put SD in the dirty ones she came in.

Ok you dumb bitch, they were clean because I washed them and threw them in SD bag. And second of all don't just assume that FDH would put SD in dirty clothes. I know you think he is a POS, but he isn't. And its fucking petty bullshit. Don't you have better things to do.

So myself and FDH haven't been around too many toddlers. I have been around more than him but I really need some "parenting" guidance. Well we both do. SO we get SD3 every weekend. She came over yesterday for an overnight so her mom could go to a concert. This was not a big deal. I have to work and he is already home with our bio. But we really need some help on how to deal with SD's behaviour. She is your typical toddler drama queen. She is one of those girls that cry and whine over everything. I mean everything.

Sunday was the third Sunday in a row that BM wasn't there for the drop off. Who knows where she was, and frankly, I don't really care. It just sucks because she doesn't see SD a lot because she has a job(which is great) but she doesn't work on Sundays. All weekend SD was crying because she misses her mom. It's really sad that BM can't even make it on Sunday to be at the exchange. FDH has been dropping off to her mom or grandma.