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Submitted by Fading on Tue, 09/11/2012 - 1:44pm

Some people seem to have this awkward assumption that when you marry a man (or woman) with kids, you marry the kids. Guess what? Not true! The only names on that damn marriage certificate are DH's and mine. Legally, I have absolutely no obligations to that child, period. Morally, sure it would be terrific if we could skip through a field of daisies and make flower crowns whilst giggling and smiling...but in reality, this rarely happens, ever.

(>-.-)> FML <(-.-<)

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Submitted by Fading on Fri, 09/07/2012 - 1:33pm

So Wednesday, as those of you who read my short, but anger-filled, last blog know, I got a skid-surprise just before leaving work. DH sends me a text saying "Oh I have SD tonight instead of tomorrow". After a fun-filled day of tearing my hair out and wanting to go rampaging through the streets screaming "FADING SMASH!!!!", I really did NOT want to go home and see her. I didn't even want to SMELL her. Alas, I locked myself in the computer room with my animals and ignored the terror occuring outside the door. That was until it sounded like the damned roof caved in.

KA-FREAKING-BOOM

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Submitted by Fading on Wed, 09/05/2012 - 4:46pm

Ok, I've had an abso-freaking-lutely horrible day to begin with and was REALLY looking forward to going home and relaxing tonight since we don't have SD until tomorrow night and....OH WAIT A SECOND!!!!!!!!
DH just text me and SURPRISE we have the little snot tonight instead!

I have seriously never been so irritated, annoyed, frustrated and pissed off as I am right now. I hope he gets her supper because I am not doing SHAT tonight for him or her.

Bee With An Itch

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Submitted by Fading on Wed, 08/29/2012 - 1:40pm

In my last post, I briefly mentioned a rash that sprung up out of nowhere. I went to the doctor last Saturday and he said it was an allergic reaction of some sort and prescribed Prednisone (which is the WORST damn medication in the world...Makes me feel bipolar, and loopy. Can't sleep. Want to eat my neighborhood out of house and home). Well, after 4 days of 40mgs/day, the rash is not going away. So Doc recommended I see a dermatologist. The dermatologist concluded it is NOT a bug bite or skin disease of any sort. It is also NOT hives. But it is a histamine reaction caused by STRESS.

Facebook, Cars and Cellphones, Oh My!

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Submitted by Fading on Wed, 08/22/2012 - 8:50am

Well. I'm considering running away and joining Harry Potter at Hogwarts...The past couple weeks have been less than magical. The week I took off for my birthday, DH's car ended up taking the road to 300 Heaven. There were so many things wrong with that car when he bought it but NOOOOO he totally needed to have a manhood car that could double as a yacht. So we ended up buying a brand spankin' new 2013 Kia Optima. I told DH I was done with these used cars he bought from this shady little ghetto lot. This is his 4th car in 5 years. The Grand Prix killed out only 1 year after he bought it.

WTF BM???!!

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Submitted by Fading on Fri, 08/17/2012 - 1:50pm

If you've read my previous blogs, you'd know that BM and I were getting along extremely well and we spent lots of time talking (and not just about SD!). Well, about a week and a half ago, she started acting really shady. Wouldn't say hi or even look at me. Told DH not to bring me with to pick up SD anymore. Then she started getting more vocal and calling me a slut, whore, slore...etc. Not only to my face but to mutual acquaintances as well.

I just want a NO SKID DAY!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by Fading on Thu, 08/02/2012 - 4:26pm

Saturday is my birthday. I didn't ask for ANYTHING except NO SKID, NO ANYTHING. But what does DH do? He schedules a freaking birthday dinner with SD and his family....Not my family, HIS FAMILY. You know the MIL that annoys the piss out of me, the BIL I hate, the BIL who likes to only talk about how great he is, Kong and her brats, and last but not least the one child on this planet that I cannot STAND to be around...SD!!!!! I told him more than 18 times over the last 2 weeks I just want a day where I can lounge around in my PJs and not have to do or worry about anything.

Am I Being Selfish?

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Submitted by Fading on Wed, 07/25/2012 - 11:01am

So DH all of a sudden decided that he wants to take SD7 to the zoo this weekend since she's been pretty good Monday until now (and she has to continue being good until Friday). Here's my problem with this:

The zoo we are going to is the same one DH and I had our first real 'vacation' and where he proposed.

Kind of OT-ish: Odd Dreams, Heavy on the Emotions

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Submitted by Fading on Tue, 07/24/2012 - 11:15am

For about the last 3 nights I've been having dreams that are so similar to each other and I wake up feeling...well...odd. If anyone has any insight on what they think they might mean (I believe all dreams/nightmares have some sort of meaning) please let me know. They are starting to kind of bother me.

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