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Submitted by dakotamom on Mon, 12/06/2010 - 12:01pm

i just dont' understand this woman. she gets paid cs yet she cannot support her children. she makes the exact same as DH but he pays her support so her has additional money. her unfortunate dh makes good money, yet her children go without.
Dh took ss15 shoe shopping because his prior pair was 2 sizes too small for the kid. we purchased a pair of size 14 shoes!!! the prior pair was a 12 mesh shoe - he had blown out the sides so you could see his socks. bm's solution to this was to buy him black socks so you couldnt' tell his toes were showing out the side.....awesome bm.

POS BM!!!!

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Submitted by dakotamom on Wed, 12/01/2010 - 2:48pm

so SS17 has decided against going to college because his mom said he should go somewhere closer (he was only going an hour away) because she'll miss him!!!!!!! he won't hear going to community colleges or anything online to get a start, he will just continue to buss tables at the pizza place he's currently working.
he told me this and i wanted to drive to that bitches house and punch her in the face!!
WHY WHY WHY would you do this to your child?!?!?!? back the fuck off and let him further himself so that he's not a scum sucker like you!!!!!!!!!

already depressed

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Submitted by dakotamom on Tue, 11/23/2010 - 3:36pm

DH told me last night that the skids will be at the house tonight for thanksgiving break. DH has the rest of the week off and was going to come up to visit me at work and take me to lunch Wed and Friday since he had stuff to do in the area. he was telling me of his plans and then said " oh and i'll bring the boys up to see you wed for lunch" - my immediate thought WTF - NO i dont 'want to see THEM for lunch...dammit. did DH think i'd be excited to see them?

i like to spoil my kids - barf

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Submitted by dakotamom on Thu, 11/18/2010 - 7:55am

So DH has been doing a lot of side jobs and i thought it would be for the golf cart we've been talking about getting. this morning he says that SS15 asked him if he would pay for half of a laptop if DH would pay for the other half. I said OH YEA...that sounds nice. in my head i'm thinking how stupid DH is because this kid has never paid for HALF of anything he says he will, it's always well i have this and i'll pay you back the rest later.

my letter

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Submitted by dakotamom on Fri, 11/12/2010 - 10:14am

There was a forum started yesterday about what you would tell your skids if you could...this was my letter and i found it super therapeutic to get this out. I would like to thank everyone on this sight for allowing me to express my issues and get other opinions if i was over reacting and how to handle situations. my life in dealing with skids has been better because i do have this outlet for when i get frustrated.

that was a rude thing to say

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Submitted by dakotamom on Tue, 11/09/2010 - 3:42pm

student loan time and BM says WE need to fill it out because we make less than her and her DH. Kind of a bitchy thing to tell your kid to pass on to his father dontcha think?!?!

So i looked up this form today and under section 3 parent information:
Who is considered a parent? IN CASE OF DIVORCE OR SEPARATION, GIVE INFORMATION ABOUT THE PARENT YOU LIVED WITH MOST IN THE LAST 12 MONTHS. IF YOU DID NOT LIVE WITH ONE PARENT MORE THAN THE OTHER, GIVE INFORMATION ABOUT THE PARENT WHO PROVIDED YOU THE MOST FINANCIAL SUPPORT DURING THE LAST 12 MONTHS.

are the skids as irritated as we are??

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Submitted by dakotamom on Wed, 11/03/2010 - 3:03pm

i just read something that said how irritated they are that the skids are coming for their scheduled visit. i understand how annoying it is having them invade my house - do you think they get annoyed being at our house too?? Is it a choice to come visit the other parent or are they being forced too?
My DH loves having his boys visit - i dont share the enthusiasm....i'm just wondering if they sit at bm's going oh god we have to go see dakota again....

the kids will always be first

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Submitted by dakotamom on Wed, 10/27/2010 - 8:42am

ugh. i just don't understand it. we went out to supper last night, Dh and i, dh's parents and the skids. dhs parents always want to do these family meals during the week when the skids don't visit much, they miss seeing them. for all i care they can have them for visitation weekends and have the skids invade their house.

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