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Is it wrong that the weekend is coming up and I'm not excited because I know SS15 will be there yet again with nothing but stories about how step dad on other side is a dork? How do I politely get SS15 to stop talking about the other side? He's always talking about his mom and step dad and the things they do - good and bad. I hate listening about the other side and it irritates me to hear how they need this and that and BM won't buy them because she doesn't have any $$. EXCUSE ME - we pay you good child support money - where the hell does that go?!?!

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I'm not sure where to even start. I just don't know that the step parent thing is for me. I love my dh but the SS are about to rip us apart. I can't bond with them, ss15 drives me up the wall. He is there ALL THE TIME. There is no time to decompress from work on the weekends because they're there. The time I have during the week seems so caotic and hectic because of dh and my schedules that we get home, eat, enjoy eachother and go to bed. SS15 and ss17 don't appreciate anything and it drives me up the wall. I knew about the kids before we got married.

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