Ss16 wants to move in with us due to stepdad being a pain in the ass. He's telling both skids that he is their dad and not my DH because they are with him more than DH. I haven't ever had a conversation with BM or stepdad because DH and BM do not get along at all. I don't want anything to do with this woman anyway! There's been so many things that I do not agree with the most recent being the threatening of DH with continuing to pay her money for ss18 even though the decree has DH no longer obliged to pay her.

so we were in walmart last night getting a few things and while walking down an isle there were these 2 kids, i'd say 3ish in age in carts next to each other screaming at each other because it was echoing. they'd scream and laugh and scream and laugh. the two women that were with them appeared to be a very young mother and her mother. the grandma says to one of the kids, "what happened to you, you used to be so quiet" i turned to my husband and not so quietly said "because you're not teaching them to NOT behave that way in public"

ss is already 18, we're just waiting for graduation on the 29th!!! so excited!!!!

DH and i had a plan to take a nice bike ride this weekend and go golfing. BM calls at 8 says skids dont have school and ss16 is coming down for the weekend.
DH's new thing is not wanting to leave and do US things when the skids come. everything leaving them at home must be dropped just incase they want to spend time with Dh. DH will still work outside but there is no more bike ride or golfing for the two of us. i'm thinking i'm still going to go golfing. i DONT see the point in dropping everything for them because that just reiterates that everything stops for them.