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SD Drivers test today, if she can take a break from shacking up with her boyfriend

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I have had 5 days of glorious freedom from SD19 because her boyfriend rolled into town and she has been shacking up with him and his dad at the hotel they are staying at! DH said that SD asked if BF could stay out our house and DH said hell to the no. (YES DH!!

SD is here, DH is an asshole, I'm tired of caring

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SD19 arrived for her 3 month stay last evening. I was off from work yesterday, because DH had a pre-surgery consult and had asked if I would go with him. So yesterday morning when I woke up, DH said never mind, I didn't need to go, what was I going to do anyway, he's sick of this Dr. office jerking him around etc etc. Whatever, I already planned to take the day off so I stayed home. I spent the morning cleaning out BS7 clothes, switching over winter/summer clothes, doing laundry, cleaning and just "stuff".

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So yes, DH did tell me that SD "wanted to" come home for the summer. Found out later, it's because she "wants" one of our cars that DH told her she could have. Of course DH told me AFTER the fact about how he told her this and told her that and then he says "are you cool with that?" I said, "I really don't think it matters what I think, since you two obviously have it all figured out." Then he back pedals and says "No, I told her I would have to discuss all of this with you first." Lie. Whatever.

DH is all over the place and I don't like surprises! UGH

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You may remember my recent post about DH offering to give SD19 one of our vehicles, while I was OK with that, as long as she pays insurance, I was NOT OK with us spending $600.00 to replace the bumpers because they were rusting. I told DH that was ridiculous for us to blow that money on getting the bumpers replaced, when we bought new cars last year because we were tired of dumping money into the old ones. So WTF are we still dumping money into the old ones???

FIgured out SD's ulterior motive for coming home for the summer

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So last week I posted about how DH told me "SD wants to come home for the summer and stay here" https://www.steptalk.org/node/235566 When I asked "Why???" He got all pissy with me. Sorry dude legit question, when her boyfriend will still be in Aunt J state, she already has a job in Aunt J state and no guarantee of a job here, and she can't stand me and could care less about DH. So yes dear, WHY??? is a VERY legitimate question!

UGH.... No clue what SD19 is up to.

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Saturday night, out of the blue, DH tells me that SD wants to come and stay with us for the summer (she's currently in college in a different state) and work at the little convenient store in our rural, Podunk town. DH said he already talked to the lady that he is "friendly" with there (pretty sure he doesn't even know her name) and she said that they do sometimes hire people for a couple months at a time. Whatever. DH acts like he can just walk in there upon SD's glorious arrival and she'll have a job easy peasy.

Stupid "forced interaction" nonsense

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Had Christmas at MILs on Monday. It was actually very nice, as MIL has been a bit better in the past few months, and I love all 4 SILs and their spouses. DH didn't go because he wasn't feeling well, so BS7 and I went by ourselves. Well of course like last year, MIL invited SS18. Whatever he's her grandson too. It just irks me because the kid makes ZERO effort to speak to her, see her etc except for Christmas and his birthday so he can grab and go...

SD is such a little lying witch ACKKKKKKK!

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So just talked to Aunt J and happened to mention that SD had stopped by and DH gave her Christmas money, which I'm sure she's already blown, and Aunt J said she just talked to SD yesterday when she called to ask some stupid question and SD told her that she never talked to or saw DH when she was home. WTF? Why lie??

SD19 update

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So thankfully, SD19 never appeared at our house last Friday, apparently she didn't like DH's offer for her to come and hang out with BS6 and I at the Christmas event we were going to. Perfection!!! DH informed me yesterday that she apparently DID show up out of the blue on Saturday when I was not home, and he gave her her Christmas handout of $150.00. Grab and Go, you know! These skids make me sick. But whatever, DH continues to allow it.

I am going to strangle my DH......

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Was just talking to DH on the phone. The same man who earlier this week said he really has no interest in seeing SD while she is home for her GBM funeral stuff because of her shitty behavior. So while we're talking he says:

"SD text me earlier and asked if I wanted to get together tonight. I told her I really didn't feel up to going anywhere, but that you and BS6 were going to the Village Christmas in neighbor town and that she could come and go with you guys and then spend the night if she wanted"

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