DH and I had a conversation yesterday, which by the way, I knew was coming because SD will be coming "home" from University the beginning of May, and I KNEW that DH would be wanting to "test the waters" about her staying with us.  During our convo, he says he feels like a crappy father because he has to tell SD20 she has to stay at a friends or MILs when she's home and he can't even have SS19 to the house to maybe go turkey hunting and spend a night or two.  Poor DH, he has to meet his ADULT kids at restaraunts or MILs or what have you and talk to them on the phone or text them.

DH and I were talking last night about moving BS8 room that is currently upstairs, down to SD20 old room and making BS8 old room into my work out room, closet, storage.. whatever room since it is right across the hall from our bedroom. Then comes the stupid ass comment out of his mouth.... "and if SD wants to come home and stay for a couple of days or something, she'll just have to sleep in the basement."

No. She'll just have to sleep at a different address because she's NOT staying at my house... ugh. Why do these men conveniently "forget?? :?

OMG, tired of the income tax ballers in a stupid "mommy" facebook group I belong to, bitching about where their returns are. I swear they check their "status" every freaking day and then make a post to complain about how long it's taking and is any else's taking this long and how come it says there is a delay. Ballers!!!!! It's only 2/14. Not like it's June. Chill the fuck out!

So last week, DH decided that we would just give SD20 our 3rd car, instead of her buying a car. I am fine with that. He said that way she could keep the money she got and use that to pay car insurance etc. Again, all fine with me. Haven't really heard much about it since... other than MIL told me yesterday that SD20 lost her DL for the second time... so guess she won't be needing a car until she at least gets a new DL.