So backstory...my cousin and his wife divorced over 30 years ago. Not sure why because I was just a teenager and obviously didn't need to know about adult crap other than, they divorced. My cousin ended up moving to Arizona where he met his now wife and they are still happily married after all these years. My cousin had 3 kids, 2 boys and a girl. They used to do visitation by flying to Arizona on school breaks, Holidays, summer. Then when the boys got to be in their early teens, they wanted to move to Arizona and they did.

Just got off the phone with MIL. During our conversation she mentioned that SD20 "might be" coming home but she hadn't heard whether she truly was or not. Which is hilarious, because according to SD20 FB, she is DEFINITLEY coming home and going to be here on the 16th. I told MIL that I was pretty sure she was coming home and planning to work at the job she was at over the summer, because she asked DH if she could drive one of our cars while she was here.

Stalked SD20 FB last night and saw that she is planning on coming home for her winter break. No clue HOW she is getting here, guess I don't care. I'm assuming she is staying at MIL's because she and MIL were all "can't wait to see you soon!" (GAG) DH hasn't said a word about it, so I don't even know if HE knows she's coming.

Just got off the phone with DH, and he's pissed. Of course SD20 as usual. So little backstory, because SD went to live with Aunt J when she was 16, Aunt J refused to take her without DH and BM1 signing over their parental rights to her. (smart woman) this went through court, MIL actually picked BM1 up and took her to court, so she couldn't no show and everything was legal and easy peasy. Aunt J did not want child support, but DH didn't feel right about not sending something, so they agreed on $150.00 per month. Aunt J just put that money in a savings account for SD.