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Should we ban BM's mom??
The SD's got a call today that really upset DH today. BM's mom called and asked to talk to DH. She went on this spiel about how she likes my DH (not true). She wants to mail the SDs some envelopes so they can send her letters. DH agreed to it. Then she asked to talk to the SDs.
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I think hell has frozen over
BM just said thank you to me. :jawdrop: That has never happened before. I let the SDs call her before bed tonight. Its weird how losing control makes a person thankful for the small things. I know its only a matter of time before she ramps up the crazy or makes demands. Truthfully, I almost fell over when she said that.
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DH is now custodial parent...
We went to court on Wednesday. And, DH actually won full custody of the SDs. Of course, this whole saga is just beginning. BM has fed the SDs a bunch of lies. They don't want to live with us. When they learned that they had to move with us, they had a meltdown. However, that is a blog for another day.
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DH said the wrong thing...
I blogged about a couple of weeks ago about SD getting in my room by popping the lock on our door. So, I took everyone's advice and I put a new lock on the door. This one requires a key, which only I have. Well, this morning, I took a shower and was getting ready for work. I walk out of my bathroom sans clothes to find SD11 standing in my room.
SD11 yells, "Completely, what are you doing? Put some clothes on! God!"
I ran back in the bathroom and yelled, "Get the hell out of my room now, you little brat."
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SD9 got caught
Last night, I caught SD9 getting my DD in trouble. I knew something was up because DD kept getting out of her bed and coming into the living room. She had already been asleep twice. It is very rare for DD to get up once she is sleeping. So, I could hear some noise coming from the room and I wondered what was going on. I got DD back to sleep after a few minutes (just relieved she was sleepy or I could have been up all night with her) When I put DD back in the room, I turned one of our cordless phones on intercom and put it in the room with her. I hid it under the sheet in her room.
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Voicemail from BM
DH and I planned a fun day for the skids and my bios yesterday. We went to the park in the morning. Then when it started raining, we took them to Chuck E Cheese. When we got home, we made a special dinner. And, then we had ice cream sundaes and watched a movie. Apparently, my DD4 turned the volume on our house phone down when she was talking to her dad, so we didn't hear the phone ring. We were really busy and didn't check the phone yesterday.
This morning, I check the voicemail and hear the following:
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Do you think this is cute?
BM called to talk to the SDs yesterday. She usually calls every couple of days. The SDs usually take the phone in their room to talk, but yesterday, they were watching TV. I was standing in the kitchen, which opens into the living room. SD9 put the phone on speaker phone and was talking to BM. Well actually, she wasn't talking. She was whimpering into the phone, like a little baby. She is very immature acting and likes to baby talk. It is something DH and I have been fighting so hard to break. Well it now makes sense why she does it. This is the conversation I heard:
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Excuse You??
DH has started working nights. So he sleeps until 2 in the afternoon. I wake the SDs up and tell them to take a shower. They are responsible for their own breakfasts. I work from home so I am usually in my office in the mornings. I go in my bedroom and take a shower. I locked the door behind me. A few minutes ago, I come out of my master bathroom and there is SD11 standing in my room. My DH is sound asleep. Luckily, I was wearing a robe. I lost my temper a little. I yelled at her, "What are you doing in here?" She starts crying, of course.
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More Abuse Allegations...When does it end?
The SDs went home to visit BM for two weeks as per our custody agreement. DH and I are driving back to get them tomorrow. We knew there would be some type of drama. There always is. Well DH just got the following text:
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BM Announces My (fake) Pregnancy!
So my stepmom just called to tell me that BM came to visit her. My dad and stepmom own a candy store. Apparently, BM brought the SDs and her 3 other kids in for a visit today. And while she was there, she proceeded to tell them that I am pregnant. Apparently, I am four months along and having a girl. LOL. I am not pregnant. I have never claimed to be pregnant.
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