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Channing Tatum & his ex

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 11/26/2019 - 4:40pm

FWIW I used to really love Channing Tatum and his, em, work.

But really - taking the kid 5 days out of school? I resent just 1 day for no reason. Toxic Troll had Munchkin go look for apartments and took her out of school for a day for this.

And facetiming EVERY DAY? That would make me reall unhappy. To have to hear Toxic Trolls voice on the phone during a phone conversation irks me. Facetiming the other parent during our visitation seems like an intrusion.

The other items seem reasonable...I cant help wondering if Jenna is THAT BM or is he THAT BD?

Water works - Munchkin has lost her battle

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 11/20/2019 - 2:53pm

OK, so I know its not ideal, but for now I am a bit happy at the current resolution. Munchkin SD13 called her mother, Toxic Troll, last night and she was told that Feral Forger SD20 would again be living with them in the new apartment.

Which caused her to cry a bunch. I tried bolstering her, but eventually she told me "please dont try to comfort me right now", and I just backed right off immediately and told her I would be there for her if she needs me. She said "ok", as if surprised. Pleasantly surprised.

Happy Monday off, Munchkin SD13 is setting boundaries, and a little anxious

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 11/18/2019 - 1:43pm

I took Friday  through Monday off - to reset and recharge, and yet, here I am, a bit anxious. I really need some feedback and advice. I dont know what to tell DH, and Munchkin  SD13.

Update: My back and body has healed much since the accident. Everything on my car has gotten fixed. Better than before actually, as its an older car with a few bumps in it.

This past weekend we had Dh's 97-year old mom, so I spent some time with her as relief for Muchkin SD13, who was technically watching her (she gets paid good $$$$$), which gave us time to catch up.

Update:

SD20 is looking for new digs

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 11/14/2019 - 10:27am

Because mommy dearest Toxic Troll is moving within a few weeks. Luckily its an apartment that is close by, but just a little further away.

FEral Forger actually, during drop off of Munchkin SD13, was there and said hello, and gave her dad a hug. Then TT said "she is looking for a new place", and Feral Forger has the nerve to ask daddy dearest "can I move to your place?"

Yeah, over my dead body will that be occurring.

OT- Rear-ended yesterday (Tuesday)

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 11/13/2019 - 2:59pm

This is actually my first time and I am over the age of 50, so I guess I was due.

The kid (kid because he barely just turned 20, and looked barely 18), was speeding and not watching and hit me, pushing me forward, and luckily I saw it was about to happen, and pushed the brakes so that I wouldnt hit the car in front of me. Also luckily it was a street thing not a highway thing.

WEIRD WEEKEND Saturday

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 10/28/2019 - 12:53pm

We signed the closing documents to our house and the deed has been transfered!

What a process! We are very happy, as its been a long and tough road. Through everything my parents have been wonderful, although difficult on schedules. A notary came to our house and luckily munchkin SD13 was at a birthday party, and we could thrash out our nervous energy cleaning.

The notary came to our house, and explained things. It wasnt that hard, but it was good to get through it all.

Something wrong with Munchkin SD13 (*edited)

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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 10/25/2019 - 12:07pm

This is one of those instances that we all experience at one time or another. That helpless feeling when someone we love "has something wrong" with them medically.

Toxic Troll took munchkin to the DR for a general physical, and shes got something wrong

Can I say that I hate this?

ALL I can do is hope, and pray, and be supportive for DH.

Thank you for the prayers, and good thoughts.

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Munchkin on the warpath

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 10/22/2019 - 10:56am

Just a little bit of an update.

Last night, while driving Munchkin home from her gmas house, we got into one of our many anti-Feral Forger conversations. We seem to get caught up these tense feedback loops whereby she will go into details of how lazy, mean and rude her sister is. And then reminisce about her past transgressions. I can see that she is hurt, and resentful. Shes normally so sweet and loving, and I think sometimes I encourage this releasing of resentment, because she feels safe with me and because I lived it too at one time.

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