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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 02/28/2020 - 12:47pm

So...knowing that a few weeks of vacation without any kind of drama just simply cannot happen any time that Toxic Troll is involved with anything, my expectations have been met last night.

The story goes that Yesterday sometime Toxic Troll and her "Friend" were at the house where she had been staying during her vacation. Her "Friend" had some sort of "episode" (drug-induced freak out?) and grabbed a Machete (I cannot even type this without thinking of Danny Trejo...) and told her that he hoped "she had enjoyed Hawai'i because today is gonna be your last day".

3 day notice, al ho ha ha ha

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 02/25/2020 - 1:35am

We were at the dinner table, slurping our rich yummy coconut milk soup, and Munchkin was a bit mopey. Had no idea why. Then she started crying. "how are you do you need me we are here if you need us", said in a high trying to be sweet voice. Then the real deal story. Munchkin and DH went to take care of rabbit at other house during Hawaiian vacation, and Munchkin saw a 3 day eviction notice.

Toxic Troll is getting Lei'd after all...(part 3)

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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 02/21/2020 - 12:27pm

I have whiplash from all this back and forth, but Dh informed me last night that Toxic Troll was flying to Hawai'i, and had sent Munchkin SD13 photos of herself in the plane during take-off. She knows how to unknowingly stick the finger in the sore spot for kiddo thats for sure. Last time TT went on a trip, she also sent Munchkin photos of her good times, and SD shared with me it was hurtful, because her mother never takes her anywhere, and why wouldnt she want to take her on a trip? Shes also been to Pismo beach and gotten tshirts for skids.

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Hawaiian Vacation Cancelled - upate

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 02/19/2020 - 11:49am

Toxic Troll - 2 days prior to her supposed departure  - has canceled the trip. Apparently because of the unexpected $50 for Rent. And the friend canceled too.

So WEIRD. Munchkin has no idea. Its too much trouble untangling the skein of lies and ambiguity that is a constant with her mother. Just that her friend canceled so she canceled too.

So - yeah, Dh did NOT cave...

Progress.

In other news, we adopted 2 adorable bengal kittens!

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Child suppport as pocket money for Hawaiian Vac

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 02/18/2020 - 2:54pm

You read that right.

Valentines weekend was pleasant outings and manual labor (homeownership is wonderful eh?) punctuated by requests from BM Toxic Troll for her child support money ahead of his payment schedule "so she has money for Hawaii".

Yup. Toxic Troll is going on a 12-day vacation (from what JOB?), leaving SD13 Munchkin with us (of course), so she took our 3-day weekend (Id had plans for us as a family) in "trade for time". Probably so it doesnt look bad that shes taking off on a vacation (that word again!) without kiddo, and wants child support to help fund it.

Tax season woes. Toxic Troll wants our refund.

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 02/06/2020 - 5:01pm

Please steptalk some sense into me, or at least let me know if Im out of line.

I do our taxes every year as a couple and have done each of our taxes separately as well, in previous years.

THIS tax year 2019, Toxic Troll did not work. And we think collected disability. But its unconfirmed. She also does side gigs.

THIS tax year 2019, she "gave" Dh SD13 to claim on our taxes. She was "given" SD13 per family court, but is not filing taxes this year.

Toxic Troll just CANNOT lay off and crawl under her rock!

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 01/21/2020 - 1:35pm

Im getting pretty upset as I emotionally prepare for todays celebration of life for my MIL.

MIL passed away Friday night after our Vigil and we had already gone home and were in bed when the call came.

Its been non-stop family gatherings and today is another one for the celebration of life and viewing.

So - I saw that Toxic Trol had posteda  lovely photo (that she stole from a FB family member) and included the following text:

Vigil Crashers

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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 01/17/2020 - 10:54am

There is definitely a need for a Vigil/Funeral Bouncer.

So - updates.

Good news: DH received a distress call from SIL, who was so angry and pissed and stressed out. Toxic Troll was getting in the way, and so was Feral Forger. When they were tyring to change pads for MIL, they were right there, in the way.

Because they have RIGHTS.

DH yesterday, actually told her no, do NOT come. I was so proud. The first 2 days of the vigil, he would leave earlier than he wanted specifically because SHE was arriving.

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Feral Forger SD20 and her new job and college classes

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 01/16/2020 - 4:27pm

Doesnt that sound like a nice caption, with all kinds of promise for a post about Feral Forger and her New Year - New Leaf, all the possibilities for becoming a better version of herself?

Yeah, well, no. She has been comming to the family vigils over MIL, along with the severely unwelcome Toxic Troll, who sits around, gets in the way and eats all the food.

And has apparently been bragging about her new job and her college classses.

Post Script - Waiting on Mother in law

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 01/15/2020 - 11:34am

Well, last night was pretty heavy. Thanks STalkers for hanging in there with me. Its an emotionally loaded time for my family. More on that...

Dh and I had it out, and picked at the scabbed wound called Feral Forger. He knows how I feel, and I know how he feels. I told him, "hey, my feelings are MY feelings, and its ok for me to have them."

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