So last night I dyed YSD hair. On a whim I broke my own rule a dyed the tips of DDs hair. As everything in this house, DH had to make it about SGD. He said (in front of DD) that I'm doing this after I gave him shit about wanting to buy both girls dye and after giving him shit for buying SGD temp colors for her hair. I should have stayed quite but I responded with, DD is 12 in 4months. Big difference then you trying to buy hair dye for 2 8 yrs olds. And to this day SGD can't brush her own hair, are you really comparing DD to SGD?? He looked at DD (who he does really love) and said No.

SD calls DH. She is going to the ER. Can he pick up SGD. Of course, we are not a we then. He says yes. He is thinking of picking up DD then SGD. I shut that down, I picked DD up, then he left to get SGD. 15 mins later he is home, with SGD. SDs best friend who DH hates is living with them. SGD made the comment he could watch her if daddy (she is 11 and this is her SF!!!) isn't home. DH said no, he can't. Brought her here. Called SSILto make sure he was home first before taking SGD home.

Yesterday DH says to me, I have a very bad feeling. SD is not answering her phone and neither is her husband. They went out last night. I should look in the police blotter.
SD is bi-polar. She is a problem drinker. But rather then be supportive he sits there waiting for her to fuck up. He only cares because she has SGD back. Doesn't care about the other 3 kids or even what SD goes through.

Ok. So story of my life, mom life anusive dad when I was 2. Bro was 5. Ran away in the middle of the night. That is my moms story.
My brother is scarred for life, BF left for milk and never came home. That is my brothers story.
I was 2. I don't remember
My own childhood BM told me BF wasn't paying CS. She had no idea where he was. He had tried to abort me. He didn't want me, tied her to the bed and used a metal hanger to try to get rid of me. I was told this story at 5 yrs old.