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BFs imaginary "rights" and court is in 2 weeks

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Fri, 11/21/2014 - 12:37pm

Ok, so BF has no legal custody of the kids. Only visitation. If something is going on BF needs to know about I email him, otherwise I don't talk to him. Any and every contact he will turn into how he is so much better then everyone.
He has never understood his "right" end where another's beginning.

My BM and a side of guilt from my brother

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Thu, 11/20/2014 - 10:56am

Soooo my BM is bi-polar, borderline, manic depressive, and has split personality tendacies. She was a single mom with the woe is me BF never pays CS. I didn't see my BF from 2yrs old to 16. At 16 I found him. After hearing horrible stories my whole life, my BM spent the night with him the day I found him. She has always found away to take or copy anything that should have been "my" day. High school graduation (my bro got his GED, I graduated with a 4.0) rather then be there for me, she shows up late with this story of a flat tire..(spare not on her car and same tire ).

Would love for a BM to be worse then exSIL

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Tue, 11/18/2014 - 10:47am

Bro left ex SIL when newphew was 4. She was doing drugs and cheating
Since then she has
Filed a false RO against bro (dismissed)
Got bro arrested in front of newphew after she attacked him
Bit my bro
Told newphew to his face he was only worth her state benefits
Made newphew responsible for her
Disappeared for months at a time
Made newphew walk home day after he was almost adbucted
"Forgot" to pick newphew up from school more times then I can count
Would keep newphew home to watch her younger child

As a divorced BM... Just hear me out

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Fri, 11/14/2014 - 10:53am

At 20 I started dating BF. We got married in 2001.. I was 21...he was 31 divorced with a kid and a step kid.
I heated all this stories about her, a lot of what I read here. I fell for a lot of it
I divorced him (funny we both left him at the same age!!!)
I started to see things a little differently
She is money hungry... Never modified CS in 15 yrs. never took him to court over the fact that he NEVER covered uninsured costs. He never handled any of it.. BM and I did

Your a poor winner... My personal vent

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Thu, 11/13/2014 - 12:06pm

Brief back ground. DH has his exSD28 who he raised after BM abandoned her. Then FauxSD abandoned fauxSGD with DH. SGD11 has RADs. She was physically abusive to me. Hit, kicked, spit, head butted... The list is long. She was 8-10 at this point DH drove her to a group home, the whole way she was running her mouth, about 45 mins into the drive she broke down. DH stopped and talked with her. Got her McDonalds and brought her home.

I don't get it... Many of us dont

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Wed, 11/12/2014 - 3:12pm

Ok, this is in reply to the blog "lieing is it a phase?"
Someone please please explain why all these parents are sooooo f-Ed up???
There can be an excuse, reason, justification for anything and everything we all do. BUT why do soooo many bios think being kind and warm and nice will get them ANYWHERE with children?? Children are like attack dogs, they can sense weakness

Anyone else's period trash is GROSS and NO ONE wants to see it

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Sat, 11/08/2014 - 9:03pm

So about a week ago our power was out. It had to do with a bill issue with PGE. We had to involve corporate, log a complaint, it took time. Our landlord lives behind us and ran some power cords to us. My bios were fine. We had hot water, a fridge... The were completely taken care of.
Anyway DD was on her period. At the end of all this corporate office gets out power back on, they had to change out the meter as they could no longer communicate with it.

I'm sorry.. Your wrong to question me

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Tue, 11/04/2014 - 10:50am

Yesterday showed me all the fights about DHs behavior with FauxSGD and FauxSD actually had nothing to do with them and everything to do with him.
2 weeks ago DH bought my BS a computer you put together yourself. I told him we have agreed to budget, Christmas is around the corner. Please stop. He agreed. Told me I was right, we would budget and pay bills first. Start saving blah blah blah.

Advice needed about transition day with my own bios

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Sun, 10/26/2014 - 1:29pm

I need a little help.
BS9 is OCD/ADHD and I am waiting for an appointment opening to have him tested for Aspergers. The testing is at the recommendation of his therapist.
DD11 is the outcast at BF. BS runs the household. BF never bonded with DD or had anything to do with her even when we were married. Even he would tell people it was like DD had one parent and BS has 2. She has never wanted anything to do with BF. I'm talking at 6 months old would scream bloodily murder if he sat next her her.

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