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Submitted by bearcub25 on Wed, 06/30/2021 - 2:57pm

I have been a member for 11 years and 12 months LOL.   

Would I do it again?   No, I would never do it again.  If something happened to us or DSO, I would stay single and just date and have sex.

 

A tale of 2 young men

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Wed, 06/30/2021 - 2:32pm

First up is my Gson18.   Gson has wanted to go into the Army since he was 3.  He isn't a star student or athlete but he is a good kid.  He was very lucky to get into a Pathways program in his Junior year in his high school.  He went to school and studied for his GED and had to take vo-tech classes so he could walk with his class and have a diploma.   Knowing he had to have it go to the Army, he finally applied himself and made it.

Will DSO ever leave BMs head? Probably not.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Tue, 09/29/2020 - 8:36am

I've been at ST for many years but with skids grown I don't have a need to post much but still come and read once in awhile.  The stories never change, just the user names.  No advice needed...I'm finally past the mind game stage of the divorce life just a little anecdote.

The lack of transparency of BM never surprises me.  2 incidents in 2 days really drives it home that she will never give up hope DSO will come back.

SS has left my house...I can't post short blogs LOL.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Thu, 04/02/2020 - 8:46am

It all came to a head Tuesday night.

I get really amped up and have been for a month with SS there, the COVID, work shutting down and my crew the only ones on sight and me in charge of millions of dollars of equipment in the data center and I'm just a supervisor and all alone (I have an 8 person crew so they are a huge help) keepiing it all together.

Bored and an update - sorry long

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Wed, 03/25/2020 - 2:36pm

So a few weeks ago, I blogged about DSO and SS and said that SS couldn't come here for his constant disrespect.  SS stayed with SD and I predicted 48 hours he would last.

Well he lasted 47 hours.  March 6th SD and SS blow up DSOs phone and he had to run and get him.  He just moved SS ass right in, disregarding my wishes.  I told him that I would go to Moms until they could find somethng.

Short Update

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Thu, 03/05/2020 - 8:12am

Thanks for all of you comments on my other blog.  I realize some newer members think I'm young, new at this, and dependant on DSO financially. This is why I never got married.

My Momma taught me to not lean on a man.   That is a driving factor for DSO.  I DO NOT NEED HIM.   I can survive without him and there are men that would jump in his spot with a lot less baggage.

DSO dumped the Asshole at SDs little tiny apartment as his brother didn't want to deal with the mess.  I'm thinking it won't last 48 hours as SD has rules and SS doesn't like rules.

Update to DSO seeing the light

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Tue, 01/07/2020 - 10:37am

I know there were texts back and forth with SS and BM (yes, she shouldn't be involved) but DSO only told me about 3 texts.   I stopped sneaking his phone to look at texts a few years ago since I almost got caught 3 times in a week LOL.   Here are the texts, this is in DSO's words.  I don't know the order he received them either.

1.  BM:  Can you come get SS and take him to your house to go onto computer and put in an app at Walmart, or take him to Walmart

     DSO: Nope, I'm busy tonight.

Do you see the light yet DSO??? Sorry long.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Mon, 01/06/2020 - 12:23pm

I haven't blogged in a really long time.  I really don't need advice but need to tell someone of my glee on DSO finally seeing the light with YSS, well I'm hoping finally he does.

YSS has always been a hand-full.  He and BM are just alike, being the arm chair psyche that I am, I think its severe Borderline Personality.  They both fly off the handle for some small perceived thing and become aggressive and violent.  I kicked YSS out years ago and he can't stay more than a few days at my house.

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