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Submitted by bearcub25 on Thu, 06/12/2014 - 3:07pm

DSO was upset last nite and was txting with someone. He didn't share and I didn't ask (it was SS20 I found out today).

So I went onto my stalker acct and saw what BM posted to her son. She was bitching him out for cheating. She said that he was cheating and acting like someone he knows (DSO...BM claims DSO cheated on her, she is the one that moved a new man in a week after she kicked him out) and how SS cheating makes her sick and he promised her he would never do this like someone else did.

DSO bought the car and SD gets some rules....maybe.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Wed, 05/21/2014 - 1:12pm

Yes, my DSO annoys the crap out of me with SD.

He got OSS the car today. 4 payments on the insurance and OSS can be a big boy.

SD....Oh SD.

Last Saturday, SD has the middle school formal. DSO and I pick her up at the Twins house and take her home to get stuff and then to go BMs to get ready.
DSO tells SD that from now one, you need to vacuum your room twice a week, put your dirty clothes in the hamper and in the laundry room, put the clean clothes away, and take dirty dishes and garbage to the kitchen every day and she gets 10 bucks a week.

DSO is going to try and make a man of SS20

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Wed, 05/14/2014 - 8:41am

He is giving it a last shot.

W/o going into it for the millionth time, SS has his nose up momma and pappys ass so. They do nothing for the boy. SS wants to get a job so he can buy a car. SS helped Pappy and BM reroof the house and tile a bathroom. Pappy won't let SS drive BMs 15yo POS vehicle. SS got a job midnite shift, 15 miles from his house at newspaper office. Pappy gave him a bicycle to ride. SS got hit by car last week.

DSO and I keep our finances seperate but take from each other when short. I have no financial issues with him at all.

BIOT Thursday...

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Thu, 05/08/2014 - 7:50am

I'm at my limit with skids.

SD whined and complained bc they hadn't started softball practices. Started last Friday. Practice Fri-Mon-Tues-Wed.

I knocked myself out Tues getting my Gkid to soccer and SD to practice on either side of town. We had electricians and power company at our house so DSO had to stay home.

First quiet drama free Easter in 8 years....

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Mon, 04/21/2014 - 6:27am

First off, BM was eating between 1 and 2, so unless I was getting up at 6 and cooking a major meal to eat at 11 or 12, there was no way we were having a family Easter dinner.
Secondly, as I posted, the skids wanted to go to BMs after 15 minutes on Easter morning...even DSO said that YSS only came to our house bc SS gets to pick the fast food when DSO picks him up (get none at the treatment ctr, take a bath (no baths at BMs bc of water bill), get the gift card and leave.

Update to fastest Easter on record....

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Mon, 04/21/2014 - 6:05am

Sorry guys, I don't post at home so DSO doesn't see so I'm answering a few questions...

http://www.steptalk.org/node/184444#new

SS and SD did ask to go to BMs after 15 minutes on Easter Sunday. Basically, YSS gets a 36 hour pass from the RTC. DSO picked him up at 8pm, got us some taco bell and then everyone called it a night at 930ish. So DSO saw him for 1.5 hours on Saturday night and then saw him for 15 minutes on Easter.

Fastest Easter on Record

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Sun, 04/20/2014 - 8:00am

SS14 got a weekend pass from his treatment center. From 8pm Sat thru Mon - DSO will be working Monday.

DSO picked him up (SD came home early yesterday bc fighting with BM), got us all taco bell and then went to bed. I woke up at 8:15, got out the gift card and Reeses eggs. SS was asking to leave at 8:30am.

Thats 15 minutes with their Dad on Easter. Thats why I didn't plan a big dinner, why I didn't bust my ass buying them stuff, why I didn't do anything.

OT - Stupid Stupid weather.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Sun, 03/02/2014 - 11:54am

I'm so sick of this. Another snowstorm, 8 - 12 inches and back down to 0 degrees.

I do feel for those in the Midwest with the extended cold weather. But I have to laugh when newscasts talks about the economy and how the cold weather has hurt it....except for picking up what we need to get thru the latest storm, I haven't been shopping to just shop since Christmas!

My last year of planning Christmas for HIM.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Mon, 12/23/2013 - 4:49pm

Had it all planned out down to the hour. DSO never, ever talks with BM about upcoming holidays and schedules. I tried asking on Saturday with no responses from SD or BM. Now, SD is txting me asking me who, what, where, when and how. I finally texted that I had tried to plan. Then I said that I have left it up to your Dad when you can stay and open presents. I'm done trying.

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