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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Mon, 06/21/2010 - 9:34am

Ok, so wednesday at 6pm is SD's counselling session. BM told dh he had to go and then he told me that he thought I needed to be there. Actually he said, if we get there and you can't come into the session, I will tell them that I'm not going in without you, we're married and we're in this together. It sounded so good, but guess what.... Now that it is only a few days away he's starting to get nervous. He's worried that BM might get angery that he brought me. He thinks he should go alone now!

I'm giving SD the dress in a few minutes....

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Sun, 06/20/2010 - 10:48am

I feel a bit nervous, LOL. Everyone I've shown it to says it's absolutely perfect. I took twice as long to make it as I usually do as I suspect BM will really inspect it, lol. SD just needs to try it on and I'll need to adjust the straps and that's it, she's taking it home with her tonight. (She's just coming for supper, I invited her to make sure the dress fits and because it's fathers day). I can't wait to see the reaction. BM won't like it but I didn't make it for her.

Is it possible that BM can be convinced to change?

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Thu, 06/17/2010 - 9:08pm

DH called BM yesterday because SD hasn't been over since June 6. I asked him if he could bring her for supper on Sunday (father's day) I'm getting pizza and the kids and I have presents for DH. It's not our weekend to have her so that is why he called to see if it would be ok. BM proceeded to ask for large amounts of money for things we had already discussed and DH said he would not pay for (mp3, nintendo DSI, there was something else but I forget). He again said no, I give you child support to buy things SD needs and those things would be for birthdays/christmas.

O/T vent about DH

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Sun, 06/13/2010 - 10:16pm

Last night the kids and I were sitting in the livingroom watching a movie. DH was sitting at the table looking at the paper and sort of watching the movie at the same time. He wasn't really into it, it was a kids movie. Anyway BD (2) was running out to see him with a bowl of popcorn when she spilled it. DH said "oh oh, there's a big mess here for you to clean up".

So stressed about friday already!

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Wed, 06/02/2010 - 9:30am

So this is it. My DH said he and I will sit down with SD11 and he will tell her that unless she can treat his wife and her children nicer than she has been she is no longer welcome in our house. I told her that I would take her out on Friday night and buy fabric so I could make her a dress for the end of school dance. She told me that sounded like a great idea except that when she left I found a note from her to me (it was left out for me to find in our playroom). It said that she hated me, it seems that the nicer I try to be the more angry she becomes!

Oh, is it the weekend again already?

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Sun, 05/30/2010 - 7:53am

I was so hoping for a phone call to say SD11 had better plans and wouldn't be coming this weekend. DH is so stressed when she's there that's he's taken to drinking and smoking dope just to manage. I'm not joking, that is how bad it's become. Yesterday SD was so hateful to all of us, especially me. If I ask her if she needs something(she was looking for pants and I said, they're in the dryer, I'll go get them) she said "I don't need anything from you" in such a snotty tone.

Is this being abit childish?

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Wed, 05/12/2010 - 6:31am

My SD is the most hateful child I have ever met. She never has anything nice to say to me. All of us dread when she is coming, even DH, and especially the other kids.She is always "forgetting" stuff at our house and I have to go downstairs and search for it and then DH has to take it to her. I think this is a game, it's always something sooo important that it can't wait, I think she just likes to make him jump to do things for her. DH is in a wheelchair and can't get downstairs so I'm the one that has to find it for him.

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