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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Mon, 05/10/2010 - 11:57am

My step daughter was here again on the weekend and was poorly behaved, as usual. She is still peeing in her pants and even DH said that DD(21 months)acts more mature that his daughter (she's 11).

SD's not coming.

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Thu, 03/18/2010 - 10:28am

After the towel bar incident last weekend SD is still angry that her daddy didn't believe her. BM called DH today and said "so you would believe your ***** wife over SD?" and DH said "yes, of course I would". I guess that's all she needed to hear because she's not letting SD come this weekend. BM says her feelings are hurt that he would chose me over SD.

Way to go DH, I knew you could grow a pair!

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Sun, 03/14/2010 - 7:59pm

What a weekend! SD called on friday just before DH was to pick her up. He forgot his cell phone at home and she wanted to know if her friend could come spend the night. I said it was fine with me but she had to ask her dad when he got there. I knew he'd say yes so I got supper ready with one extra plate. The friend came and the evening went pretty good.

Yeah we're going to see our counsellor again :)

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Fri, 03/12/2010 - 9:22pm

The last time we went didn't go so well. We ended up shouting at each other. You see the bottom line is DH says he "doesn't like being told what to do" however he has no problem telling me what I'm going to do. Is that how a relationship is supposed to work? Of course not but he is too self centered to realize that I get an opinion too. OK, I'll admit we have great days and awful days, any disagreement we've ever had have to do with BM and SD, funny about that isn't it?
Ok, here's where I need help, I'll try to keep it brief.

Advice wanted!

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Fri, 03/05/2010 - 7:25am

Most people on here know that my DH has a daughter from a previous relationship. BM creates lots of drama and SD has begun acting just like her. You can read my previous posts for more info on that. I'll get to the point.
BM wants to go to Texas for vacation (her sister lives there). She asked DH yesterday for $400 which is half SD's plane ticket. He told her ok.
I have some major problems with this:
-we are struggling to pay our bills right now, they get paid but there is no extra.
-the other 3 children will not be getting $400 to go on vacation.

oh my...what a weekend.

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Sun, 02/07/2010 - 4:39pm

We had a pretty good weekend until today. SD11 was banging BD6's doll stroller around and broke it. I said to SD that she has to stop breaking things and she would be paying for a new stroller. She screamed at me, I couldn't understand what she said it was more like a loud high-pitched scream. I said "stop screaming at me" so she went to her room and slammed the door.

I've been lurking and have decided to join and ask for advice...

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Sun, 01/10/2010 - 12:59pm

My SD is 11. My DH dated her mom for 4 months and had broken up with her before finding out she was pregnant. He is not on the childs birth certificate so this gives the mom some kind of power to not share report cards and doctor appointments. We have been to a laywer about trying to get full custody or even just a DNA test to make sure she's his and have some sort of court documents that would give DH some power.DH is not ready to move forward yet. He think this will make BM irrate and that she will talk poorly about us to SD (she already does anyway).

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