Somebody please tell me how to do this. I think I've gotten better because I've finally learned to remove myself from any parenting involving them. I've learned that's the way to go. If I don't, then I get pooped on for giving a crap and putting in my all. So I've given up all parental duties to DH. They're basically short roommates at this point. But now I sit by and watch DH learn the hard way that the skids can be little liars about responsibilities. How do you just sit by and listen/watch?!