Are the BMs a part of your life?
My DH and I have this discussion/fight all the time. I say that I get fed up sometimes with the BMs being a part of my life (he has 4 kids by 3 women, so I deal with 3 BMs). He swears up and down that theses women are NOT a part of our life... HUH?
How are they not when they call/text all the time? Constantly wanting to change plans or ask him questions or wanting to know where their cs is? They call/text when he and I try to go on vacation or try to have some quiet private time after 8pm at night. They get the first $2500 out of his paycheck every month... we pay cs, medical insurance, medical bills, cell phone bills, car insurance and cars (for those kids who drive) and they pay NOTHING!
So once again... how are they NOT a part of our lives? This confuses me greatly and is a point of contention between me and DH...
Thoughts? Anyone? Am I wrong?