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Apparently CS stands for Cash Strapped not Child Support

princessmofo's picture

I'm reading throught today's posts and am simply mortified at the gold-digging, money grubbing, blackmailing, vendictive, extortion, shady methods used by some of your alls BMs! Holy crap! These women, and I use the term loosely, could be enlisted by the mob to shake down dead beat gamblers! The vast majority of these BMs have no freaking idea how lucky they are to receive child support! I receive zilch, zero, nada, nothing from my ex! And I am just fine with that. I have always been rather self sufficent and have no inability to provide for my lovely children. My DH pays CS to the ex. He also pays the insurance on his son. Again, I buy my kids insurance, no help. My DH also pays half medical bills. Half extracuricular activities. Half school supplies. You name it, he pays half of it. So I think these BM's who piss and f*cking moan over $$$$ need to get a damn life. Suck it up! And using the kid and denying visitation or threatening it is dirty pool. What kind of an adult are you? Serioulsy, these women should be raising cobras, not children! I feel sorry for you all who are dealing with this, and pity your dhs. It's a no win situation.

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3familiesIn1's picture

I receive zilch, zero, nada, nothing from my ex! And I am just fine with that. I have always been rather self sufficent and have no inability to provide for my lovely children.

Me too sista!!!

I am footing the full bill for my bios except for the meals EOW they eat when with their father. I have one in braces and the second one to be shortly - the monthly payments for that alone is $400+ as ortho is not covered. I pay all their other medical bills, supply their insurance, their school needs, their clothing, their trip to see grandparents in the summer, their daycamps if they attend and all extra curriculars. My XH is a financial disaster with money only for himself.

These women with their hand out need to understand that they are 50% responsible for their damn kids - and if they aren't willing to chip in then too bad for them, the respectful DHs who pay their allocated CS on time is all that is required and they should be thankful their XHs are responsible enough to bother, get off their asses and work to make the other 50% required to raise children.

My XH is no better than a money grubbing BM because I pay his missing 50% each and every month while he ensures he has the latest greatest iPhone, big screen TV and back yard hottub - but he is broke..... He's not broke, he is a loser.

TASHA1983's picture

I receive CS from my sons uninvolved father BUT because I want to ensure that I do receive it I made a deal with my sons father to accept LESS than is court ordered me so that my son can go to a really great private school. I know I shouldn't have to accept less BUT my EX is the type that doesn't even pay sometimes and even when we went thru CSE he went into arrears on many occasions. It sucks that I pretty much have to wheel and deal with this grown ass man in order to ensure my sons future and well being. I still live at home with my parents because I alone cannot afford to live on my own and support my BS9. It sucks but I do what I gotta do. Sad

As for my BF, he is/has been dealing with one of the "women" that you have described above. She is the epitomy of a gold digging whore. She HAD IT MADE when they were married for 9 years, until she decided to cheat on him and as a result got pregnant while BF & BM were still legally married. Now my BF pays for her and skid to be on his Ins. and 230.00 a week to this tramp who has 5 kids from 4 different men. Children are her meal ticket to free money and all the perks that are offered to single mothers. I am not downing any single mother but I definitely do down a single mother who uses her children as a meal ticket and to take advantage of the system and THAT is what this POS does.

The CS my BF pays is taken directly from his check every week and when she does not receive it when she "thinks" she should be getting it or when she is used to getting it she will complain to him that she hasn't gotten it and says she has rent to pay etc. FUCK HER I SAY!!! BF texts her and says call CSE or my boss..NOT MY PROBLEM...out of my hands! Shuts her right the fuck down! & My BF will not pay for anything more than what he is CO to pay which is CS and I believe half of all medical. I told him before when she was wanting him to contribute for sports, school supplies, etc. THAT IS WHAT YOU PAY CS FOR!!! FOR THE KIDS NEEDS!!! DERRRRR!!! So from that point on that bitch doesn't get a red cent more than the 230.00 he HAS to pay!!! FUCK HER AND ALL GOLD DIGGING WHORE BM LIKE HER!!!!

princessmofo's picture

"It sucks but I do what I gotta do." Yep, and keep your head up! You're doing the best you can and the right thing! Smile

Newstep's picture

Our POS BM used to harass SO all the time if her check didn't show up fast enough. His CS is processed by the payroll department and the check is directly mailed to her from our employer. One of the last times she texted him "you better find out whats going on with my check, I shouldn't have to be chasing it down" :jawdrop: :jawdrop: He responded with a good ol FU call the office if you have an issue don't ever call me regarding your CS check again!!

Which he shouldn't have used the FU but she was blowing up his phone with texts and he was super busy at work. She went off on him after that but he ignored her }:) }:)

TASHA1983's picture

That is how we are with BM, if she runs her mouth via text to BF we just IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE! Nothing burns a persons ass more than being ignored! }:) Wink

TASHA1983's picture

That would burn my fucking ass to have to deal with a lazy cunt like that!!! I don't know how you haven't kicked her teeth in yet???!!! LOL

lawyergirl06's picture

BM was ordered to pay CS a month ago, a measly $300 a month for four kids. She has yet to pay a dime. Calls the kids and tells them, "Oh I spent too much on you for Christmas." SO doesn't bring up the child support even though it would help out substantially. Let her go in arrears. Bitch can lose her license for another year. Not that it makes me happy to lose my disposable income. Ugh....she just needs to die already.

Kilgore SMom's picture

Our Bm is co to pay $160 per month for ss. Dh has never seen a dime either. Now shes in prison so the arrears are adding up. The one and only time Bm ever made the mistake of calling me, to try to get me to talk to DH about her seeing ss (she was on drugs bad and we set Bm sv through and agency, Bm was mad)Bm started screaming about her rights, I told her you damn sure do have rights, You have the right to go to "Getting Together Safely" to see your son. Go sign up. and I hung up on her. She never called me again. These women are just plain sorry. We've had about a year break. Our bm will be out of prison in May.