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Submitted by Kilgore SMom on Mon, 06/17/2013 - 11:56am

BM sv was Sat and she shows up with a Christmas gift bag. That says Ho Ho Ho. Very fitting for her I think. }:) Inside the bag is a Candy Land game and 2 car erasers and snacks. SS is 8 years old he learned his colors when he was 2. That game is for 3 and up but he grew out of it years ago.

Dh and I talked about the fact that she has no idea how smart SS is and it won't be long and he will see through her. BM is so out of touch about any of her kids its just sad. BM had SS read to her last time they visited, SS also taught BM the words to the song "You are my sun shine." That's suppose to be her song to her kids and Bm doesn't even know the words.

Yeap won't be long and SS will be calling out BM on her stupidity. Smile

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Submitted by oldone on Mon, 06/17/2013 - 12:04pm

Of course he will realize her stupidity but never let him call her out on it. He needs to be respectful to her as his mother.

It's obvious that she is a POS - but a child should not be allowed to treat an adult poorly. Now he should never be placed in a position where "respect" can equal "being manipulated".

He should while he is a small child always be at least civil to her.

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Submitted by PeanutandSons on Mon, 06/17/2013 - 12:06pm

Candy land was probably what was on sale at the dollar store. Hard to find cheap gifts at the last minute I guess.

We used to get a lot of gifts like that. Random cheap crap that was clearly picked up on the way over with no thought put into any of it. Now the BMS just don't do anything gift wise. Our best/worst one was giving a 6yr old size 2T clothes. We were quite perplexed by why she would do this, until I went to exchange the clothes (from Kmart) and realized that she bought them all off the clearance rack and paid $1 a piece for them.

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Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Mon, 06/17/2013 - 12:15pm

Were you there at the visit? Please don't take this the wrong way, but I think BM was being passive aggressive with the Xmas bag. That would be exactly what swamp would do to me, kwim?

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Submitted by Kilgore SMom on Mon, 06/17/2013 - 1:45pm

HadEnoughx5
BM has supervised visits so we drop off and then she comes in. I saw her get out of her car in the next parking lot over because BM and DH go in different doors. They don't see each other face to face. You could tell the bag was used because it was all wrinkled up, like it was crammed in a closet or something. (I save mine to so that's what it looked like)If she was trying to be passive aggressive it made her look bad. Who uses a Christmas bag in June? I agree with the last minute no thought gift. LOL.
Oldone
Dh and I do make it a practice to never say what we really think of BM in front of SS. We teach him to have respect for her. But he does already see her faults. After spending the weekend with GBM over spring break SS came home and told us that BM was on drugs and a liar. We were glad he didn't hear that from us but it is true. Because SS is so smart and can see what's real I believe someday he will say how he feels and BM isn't going to like it. I wouldn't be because DH and I let him have disrespect for others.