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Bm's newest alligation

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Submitted by violetforest on Thu, 07/01/2010 - 3:15pm

thank goodness for this site so that I can have an outlet for this everyday shit. the newest alligation from the BM includes that I choked ss13 three years ago and that I have kicked BF and ss16 out of the house this past weekend, because I was pissed off about the recent agreement that was a healthy and safe alternative for our ss13 instead of visiting in our home. (Jeeze the way that this letter from BM's attorney sounds like the 4 kids that live here are in danger)

GAL allowing

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Submitted by violetforest on Tue, 06/29/2010 - 12:29pm

GAL in the case acknowledges that BM is continuously in contempt and that she is unable to get ss13 to follow rules in her home.

BUT who cares.

GAL is requesting that BF continue to attempt to be involved with ss13 by himself, there are to be no visits with his own brother or his step siblings. BM continues to lie to the court claims that ss13 gets hurt when at BF home, how is that possible when visits have not happend for over 6 months. GAL claims that she wants to see how things go with her being involved. She has been involved for for 4 months, No visits.

sheriff dept. cant figure it out.

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Submitted by violetforest on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 9:53pm

Well talked to the sheriff today to find out how 3 confidential reports were released to my hubby's exwife today. They are all scrambling.

I also called an attorney, they said that I clearly have a significant case against BM. The Hippa protected reports that she got ahold of I cant even get a copy of unless I get a court order but hubby's ex has a copy of my report.

do anything to gain BM's attention

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Submitted by violetforest on Fri, 06/25/2010 - 9:55pm

Do all 16 year old boys act like this> I can not believe that ss16 sat here tonight telling us that he did not want to say anything to his BM or brother 13 who is being withheld from visitation again. She is so far in contempt it is just stupid. He does not want to make her MAD and he does not want to hurt her feelings.

Got a little bit of good news, there may be hope yet.

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Submitted by violetforest on Thu, 06/24/2010 - 7:16pm

Hubby had that meeting today with the attorney's and both he and the ex to attempt to come to some type of agreement prior to the hearing next week. BM brought ss13 to the meeting as that is what she was requesting.

Our attorney had contacted the GAL and she showed up, she was not happy that they had attempted to plan a meeting without her there since the boys were requested to be present. Hubby did not take oldest ss16, he had summer school and as a parent he voiced that he felt no need to involve either of the boys in the legal matters. GAL approved.

crossing boundaries

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Submitted by violetforest on Thu, 06/24/2010 - 1:14pm

Every year I have to go though my bio kids getting upset because their biofather's widow and parents put 2 seperate pictures of the kids Dad in the local paper listing their names the week he died. The kids get very upset about this, 2 of the kids had restricted visits with their father because of things that he admitted to doing to them (getting too physical) and the other 2 children were so young they really do not remember him.

what can we do about PA/PAS then?

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Submitted by violetforest on Wed, 06/23/2010 - 6:48pm

I read through the log about how "we" can't even agree on what Parental alienation. What is it that we can do about it then?

Even the GAL in our ongoing custody case (hearing date 6/29th) brought up the term parental alienation and when I asked her to explain what she meant by the term, because I wanted to know what she felt that it meant she explained that any time a parent or others around the child speak or act ill against the other significant parties in the child's life. (I was so glad to hear that she acknowledged that did not just mean BF or BM's)

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