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Nothing new here with the BM just the same sh***

violetforest's picture

I wish today was something new of but of course not.

1. friday per the order if bf has to work than bm is to drive ss to our home.
2. Bm did not show up with ss.
3. Bf attempted to gain access to ss by phone - unable - attempted text - unable
4. Br sent text to Bm and ss requesting contact - unable
5. Bf sent text and email to bm requesting visit confirmation - no response to email (but it was opened per alert) text messages sent back that ss is not going to ever see bf again because of me. hates me . wants nothing to do with me.
6. ss sends text message to older brother ss16 - says Hi.
7. ss16 attempts to contact younger brother 13 by phone right after text is sent. No answer
8. ss16 contacts BM requsts to speak to brother, she refuses and states that ss13 is sick.
9. ss16 askes bm why he and bf cant come up to see ss13, she keeps saying that he is sick and ss tells bm about the text messages sent she confirms that she knows that ss has been swearing and calling names at bf.
10. ss16 tells her that he knows that ss13 wants to see bf and me stepmom, he has text.
11. bm says that he changed his mind because he "remembered" how I supposedly attempted to choke him. (are you fricken crazy)
12. ss16 tells bm that she is full of it and bm attempts to change the subject and he requests one more time to see his brother or talk to him and she refuses.

(gal just got done telling Bm, Bf and ss that he would be having visits with his father and this is what bm has done to interfere, why do the courts continue to allow this)

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Synaesthete's picture

Sad That's horrible. I don't understand how some parents can be so immature. Do they not realize who they're hurting most in all of this?

I don't have any good advice to give. It would stink of the courts needed to be involved but she is breaking the agreement and that isn't fair to anyone. In the meantime, try to keep yourself sane by reminding yourself (and BF, if he needs it) that one day SS13 will be able to see this bad behaviour for himself - SS16 already seems to be able to - and once he's old enough she won't be able to control what he does. He'll be able to make his choices about what kind of relationships he wants with everyone without her sticking her hands into it.

I'd also recommend keeping these texts, e-mails, phone records etc. should you need them for legal purposes.