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BM Friends just don't get it...

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Tue, 09/04/2012 - 1:07am

So I'm at the point in my life where most of my friends are married, having babies of their own and were lucky enough to marry men without children.

I am lucky enough to have one very best friend who is single and free and amazing to whom I can vent and she's never judgemental and KNOWS never to get into the situation in which I have put myself.

I have another BF who didn't listen and is now in the same boat and we can cry together and talk for hours about how dumb we are. LOL

Competition.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 09/03/2012 - 1:18am

so umm...

I posted about the nightmares I experienced with back to school shopping and the amazing back to school haircuts we got the kids...

Follow up to that - I completely disengaged last week. Read. Jogged. Went out for a few drinks with some girlfriends. When they went home they were very confused and didn't even say goodbye - so really it hurt me and them in the long run so I think that was a bad idea...although - I was very relaxed.

UPDATE to the whole week ruined...

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Tue, 08/21/2012 - 12:50am

Welp...DH hasn't apologized yet but last night he asked me if I wanted him to get the girls on his usual days which will be ending soon because they go back to school...My reply - "I don't care what day you get them - I am working long days this week anyway so you will need to figure out dinner...I won't be working from home come Tuesday"

WHOLE WEEK - RUINED

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 08/20/2012 - 12:05am

Welp...Our whole week was awesome. The girls and I did SO many things. We played hard, swam, went on a boat - had tea parties, we made things...we had a blast. I even took the week off work. So Saturday they were going back to their house...or where ever it is that BM lives now and we wanted to take them school shopping. Well...low and behold SD9 had to RUIN everything. Of course...what else would I expect?

Letter for BM- no this isn't what i'd really send...

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 2:28am

The actual letter would make her want to jump off a cliff.

BM.

Tonight the smalls told us you are NOT taking them to the beach with you. They said it's because there's no room for them. Yet, there will be other children going. You are taking their half-brother...because it's his father's family-but you're not taking the girls.

Update on the lump.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Sun, 07/01/2012 - 5:03pm

Welp...there is NO update. BM is SUCH a piece of crap.

Thursday, June 21st - fsd7 goes to the doc and a script is written for amoxicillian. She is to take it for two weeks - and then if it does not disappear as it is a swollen lymphnode an MRI will be ordered.

Losing Privileges and the lump.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Thu, 06/21/2012 - 1:21am

So...I am trying really hard to make my fsd9 understand that little things need to be appreciated. I've been trying to make this point for a long time now but this weekend she just really ticked me off. She is selfish, manipulative, spoiled, nosey, and always has to be the center of attention, she thinks everyone HAS to do everything for her. We've been really good though for several months.

BM and flavor of the week

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Tue, 06/12/2012 - 1:02am

So I recently posted that BM took her NEW boyfriend to fsd9's first holy communion which I did not attend as it was in the church where FDH and BM said their vowels a year after Fsd9 was born. It bothered me so I did not attend. So she had my DH which she has our girls with - her new baby to another guy and her new boyfriend with her? In a catholic church...hmm...hahah I mean...we've been together just shy of 5 years and I go to everything he goes to because the girls want me there.

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